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Regardless of how dumb or unimportant some of us think FB is, for the constant user what people post on there...or won't..is telling.
This girl is not proudly being open about her relationship with the op.
That does "say" something. They don't have the relationship he thought they had.
She told me she had a tendency to fall for "punks" claiming she didn't know they were punks at first, and that their true colors came out as time went on. But just looking at pictures of some of her ex's, I can tell she fell prey to the "bad boys". She's an edgy girl herself.
And she's not adding guys every single day. Those guys I saw her add were all within a few days or a week maybe. Still doesn't feel really assuring to me... We still see each other almost everyday but Im just worried if she has her eyes on the door...
If i were you i would continue seeing her and enjoy her but start looking for a girl that you are more compatible with. Don't spend a lot of money on her too!
How old are you OP? All this ridiculous Facebook crap makes you look like a tool. Get off the social media sites and develop a real relationship not some idiotic cyber world fantasy.
Regardless of how dumb or unimportant some of us think FB is, for the constant user what people post on there...or won't..is telling.
This girl is not proudly being open about her relationship with the op.
That does "say" something. They don't have the relationship he thought they had.
thats what im saying. we did jump into a relationship pretty quickly, in retrospect. and it was only weeks after the bad boy who she seemed to be all over (just by seeing her FB posts at the time) screwed her over. i remember a week before we met, she shared something on FB that said something like "im still waiting for somebody to actually love and respect me." I emailed a dating coach around the time I made this thread. He suggested that maybe she feels like I'm a beta provider for her, and that's what made her cling to me during her time of hurt and desperation. He suggested the possibility of being a rebound, saying that she may have just jumped at the first person who showed her any real, genuine affection.
We still see eachother pretty often, it just keeps nagging at me the fact that she hasn't tagged me in anything for about a month now (almost 2 months into the relationship) when i KNOW how Facebook-oriented she is. On top of that, the few random single guys she's added (and 'Liked' one of their pictures) have no idea she's in a relationship, since there's no real evidence of a relationship on her profile. And I'm fearing that that's what she wanted. Keeping her options open, basically. Am I wrong to think this?
Last edited by jaypennington; 11-17-2016 at 09:21 AM..
I am married, and I have never once put a picture of myself and my husband on my profile page. I think you are way over thinking things.
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