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We started off as friends with benefits four months ago and now we are a in boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I guess I have never really been "loved" by someone as she has shown me, but of course I have had my heart broken several times, so I am not exactly sure whether to trust her. The thing is that I will be studying abroad for 6 months and I am afraid she is going to cheat on me. But the thing is she shows the exact opposite through her actions. She is constantly saying she loves me, she always ask me if I need her to bring food or whatever after she gets off work. She almost always instantly texts me back. She is always constantly telling me she loves me and calls me sweetie, lover, etc. I have not told her i love her back. I told her that when i go abroad i will send her poetry letters, and she loved the idea, even saying she will send food like cookies through the mail lol. She is so awesome with me, but i feel she is very idealistic and can be easily swayed if another guy comes. She told me once that she slept with a guy she hated from her workplace, while working in the middle of the shift during their break, right then and there. She said he hated him for being a arrogant prick but that it was a spur in the moment. They were just talking about sex during their break, and one thing led to another and they went to her car and had sex-with people around- they work at in a big shopping mall. She is highly sexual and loves to do kinky stuff, like having sex in different public places etc. This thing with this other guy happen during this summer of last year. She also had sex with another guy in that same workplace, and she still talks to him as friends. she also had a crush on another guy before we met. She actually got stood up at the bar by that guy before i arrived and introduced myself to her. It seems that she easily falls in love. She slept with me just a day after i met her. She has had the triple the sex partners as i have and she was with a guy for three years. Could it be that she really loves me and i am just being insecure? She tells me that she loves me because i am sweet and intelligent. But i feel maybe another bad boy can come around and take her from me.
I don't want to make this too long to bore you so if you need anymore info just ask away.
We started off as friends with benefits four months ago and now we are a in boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I guess I have never really been "loved" by someone as she has shown me, but of course I have had my heart broken several times, so I am not exactly sure whether to trust her. The thing is that I will be studying abroad for 6 months and I am afraid she is going to cheat on me. But the thing is she shows the exact opposite through her actions. She is constantly saying she loves me, she always ask me if I need her to bring food or whatever after she gets off work. She almost always instantly texts me back. She is always constantly telling me she loves me and calls me sweetie, lover, etc. I have not told her i love her back. I told her that when i go abroad i will send her poetry letters, and she loved the idea, even saying she will send food like cookies through the mail lol. She is so awesome with me, but i feel she is very idealistic and can be easily swayed if another guy comes. She told me once that she slept with a guy she hated from her workplace, while working in the middle of the shift during their break, right then and there. She said he hated him for being a arrogant prick but that it was a spur in the moment. They were just talking about sex during their break, and one thing led to another and they went to her car and had sex-with people around- they work at in a big shopping mall. She is highly sexual and loves to do kinky stuff, like having sex in different public places etc. This thing with this other guy happen during this summer of last year. She also had sex with another guy in that same workplace, and she still talks to him as friends. she also had a crush on another guy before we met. She actually got stood up at the bar by that guy before i arrived and introduced myself to her. It seems that she easily falls in love. She slept with me just a day after i met her. She has had the triple the sex partners as i have and she was with a guy for three years. Could it be that she really loves me and i am just being insecure? She tells me that she loves me because i am sweet and intelligent. But i feel maybe another bad boy can come around and take her from me.
I don't want to make this too long to bore you so if you need anymore info just ask away.
Yikes.
I'm a 30 year old guy with a lot of dating experience. My opinion: Your concerns are legitimate.
Could it be that she really loves me and i am just being insecure?
Yes!
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She tells me that she loves me because i am sweet and intelligent. But i feel maybe another bad boy can come around and take her from me.
I don't want to make this too long to bore you so if you need anymore info just ask away.
Have you shared your concerns that she might get distracted by another guy while you're away? That would be a good thing to do. Word your question carefully. and wait until a little closer to departure time, unless that time is now. When will you leave?
Were you a virgin when you met her? Or have you also slept with other people? You do realize that if she had sex with you the day after you met, that means that YOU also had sex with HER, right? How does she know you won't cheat on her??? After all, you haven't even told her you love her.
Break it off with her. She deserves someone who won't chronicle the details of her sexual experience on City Data.
Not just that. She seems to at least semi-routinely have sex with people she hates on lunch breaks at work.
I would find it hard to trust her if she was with me almost all day, no less in another country.
Once is not semi-routinely.
Her only mistake was trusting the OP to be an adult.
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