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She says she likes me, but shows the complete opposite. A month or 2 ago, I barely got to see her, would barely even hear from her, but she was talking to other people. Whenver we would be at work together, which is rarely, she would act like she didnt know me in front of her friends. A while went by and it was the 1st time i saw her in a while, at work. so i told her i'd go on break with her to spend time with her. She told me 7. I went on break at 7, she did too but left the building with her friends and said nothing to me. Why not just tell me if you have other arrangements, i wont get angry, i will get angry when im waiting and waiting for you and you never show up.. thats just a LITTLE of what happened before we broke up..yeah we broke up. she told me she still likes me and she wants to try again, but just to take it slower... i made a recommendation that we do take it slower, but also date officially as in meet eachothers families and spend holidays at eachothers houses and stuff, since she is also going to be moving for college . she said yes, and even gave me a specific date on when we can go out on a date. but her actions dont match up with her words. why should i believe she likes me JUST because she says it. things are constantly up & down and it doesnt help that she cant communicate when theres an issue. so im just stuck with these feelings and cant say anything becasue the moment i do I'm "blowing things out of proportions" im still holding on, i still like her, but should i trust her do you think she is being truthful or do you think she honestly has trouble showing how she feels...
Also, if i dont text her first she send me a " " as in wheres my text, but she could text first too lol, i actually want her to text first to show she has actual interest.. i think i am acting a little childish also bc this is the first person i dated who actually likes me back.. or claims she does. idk what to do
She says she likes me, but shows the complete opposite. A month or 2 ago, I barely got to see her, would barely even hear from her, but she was talking to other people. Whenver we would be at work together, which is rarely, she would act like she didnt know me in front of her friends. A while went by and it was the 1st time i saw her in a while, at work. so i told her i'd go on break with her to spend time with her. She told me 7. I went on break at 7, she did too but left the building with her friends and said nothing to me. Why not just tell me if you have other arrangements, i wont get angry, i will get angry when im waiting and waiting for you and you never show up.. thats just a LITTLE of what happened before we broke up..yeah we broke up. she told me she still likes me and she wants to try again, but just to take it slower... i made a recommendation that we do take it slower, but also date officially as in meet eachothers families and spend holidays at eachothers houses and stuff, since she is also going to be moving for college . she said yes, and even gave me a specific date on when we can go out on a date. but her actions dont match up with her words. why should i believe she likes me JUST because she says it. things are constantly up & down and it doesnt help that she cant communicate when theres an issue. so im just stuck with these feelings and cant say anything becasue the moment i do I'm "blowing things out of proportions" im still holding on, i still like her, but should i trust her do you think she is being truthful or do you think she honestly has trouble showing how she feels...
Also, if i dont text her first she send me a " " as in wheres my text, but she could text first too lol, i actually want her to text first to show she has actual interest.. i think i am acting a little childish also bc this is the first person i dated who actually likes me back.. or claims she does. idk what to do
Ignore what people tell you, only listen to how they act. You are wasting your time, energy, emotion and psychological health. You need to stop, and after you've done that you should examine why you did it in the first place (self esteem).
I don't see how in the world you fell for this girl, it seems like you both have spent no significant time together at all, not enough to develop feelings. Just sounds like attraction and infatuation.
If it was me, I would've been stopped dealing with her. She's doing nothing but wasting time.
I don't see how in the world you fell for this girl, it seems like you both have spent no significant time together at all, not enough to develop feelings. Just sounds attraction and infatuation.
If it was me, I would've been stopped dealing with her. She's doing nothing but wasting time.
Stop this sort of behavior now or you'll be a doormat your entire life.
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" as in wheres my text, but she could text first too lol, i actually want her to text first to show she has actual interest.. i think i am acting a little childish also bc this is the first person i dated who actually likes me back.. or claims she does. idk what to do
