Dating girl in an uncertain relationship

[BirdieBelle]

Technically, she shouldn't be doing dating-type stuff with you while she's got a boyfriend. But lots of people overlap. Not saying it's right, but it does happen.

For your own sake, you really need to tell her you'll be glad to hang out with her when she's free and clear.

[SWFL_Native]

Let her know how interested you are. Take a big swing and if you miss you miss.

But she may think it's just a casual date request when you are very interested.

[earthworker]

I'm glad you gave me such clear ideas. Inside, I already knew the answer but didn't want to hear it out loud.

I already let her know I am interested and the source of uncertain relationship status was also she. I respect her for being honest to me and also not cheating on her current boyfriend.

This girl has a special meaning for me and it was the real reason to place the question here. As she was really the first girl I was close to, her honesty caused me a heartbreak. Struggling with anxiety for many years makes me worrying about finding another woman I will get as close to as to this one. One comment here made me laugh (not in offensive way ) that I should date another women.

As it is anonymous here don't be bothered with my heart opening post .

[BirdieBelle]

Thx for the update. Unrequited feelings are no fun at all.

Hopefully you can seek help for your anxiety so you can experience some really great relationships.