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This forum is the biggest example of this. Whenever a guy talks about not being able to find a girlfriend or chooses to rant about his bad luck with getting sex or women. All women, and of course, some guys too, just gang up on him and blame him for everything. It is always the guy's fault. He is not doing something right or missing something, not trying hard enough, not being the kind of man that women want. Suddenly, you are not man enough. Man up, stop complaining, be a man. Almost as if men are not allowed to feel depressed and down.
They couldn't care less whether you find a girlfriend or not. Why would they care? When they don't even have to approach or risk anything to get dates or suitors. They don't know what is like to be a man. Their reality is different from yours. The only people who would understand and console you, are other men who are in your shoes, in the same dilemma as you are, which is why is absurd to ask for relationship advice on a forum dominated by women.
You should be asking for advice on forums where men populate. Men who are facing or who have faced the same difficulties that you are facing. A woman cannot help you. She does not care. Whether you find a girlfriend or get sex, is irrelevant to her. If anything, they'd probably ridicule you and make you feel worse for talking about your problems.
This forum is the biggest example of this. Whenever a guy talks about not being able to find a girlfriend or chooses to rant about his bad luck with getting sex or women. All women, and of course, some guys too, just gang up on him and blame him for everything. It is always the guy's fault. He is not doing something right or missing something, not trying hard enough, not being the kind od man that women want. Suddenly, you are not man enough. Man up, stop complaining, be a man. Almost as is men are not allowed to feel depressed and down.
They couldn't care less whether you find a girlfriend or not. Why would they care? When they don't even have to approach or risk anything to get dates or suitors. They don't know what is like to be a man. The only people who would understand and console you, are other men who are in your shoes, in the same dilemma as you are, which is why is absurd to ask for relationship advice on a forum dominated by women.
You should be asking for advice on forums where men populate. Men who are facing or who have faced the same difficulties that you are facing. A woman cannot help you. She does not care. Whether you find a girlfriend or get sex, is irrelevant to her. If anything, they'd probably ridicule you and make you feel worse for talking about your problems.
Please tell me you see the irony in dismissing female opinions about why you can't get a woman.
Please tell me you see the irony in dismissing female opinions about why you can't get a woman.
A woman does not know what is like to be a man and what we have to go through in the dating world.
An average woman, gets more attention from men in one week than an average guy would get in 1 year. Not only that, she doesn't have to move a finger or risk shame or a possible rejection, because the man will always initiate. It is expect of of him. It is easy to talk down to men who have no luck with other women, when you as a woman, have is so easy.
As such, her reality is very different from mens. How could you understand? And most of all, why would she give a damn if other men can find girlfriends or not. She has never faced your problems or dilemmas.
The only one who can understand and truly care is another man who has been in your shoes.
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