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Old 02-21-2017, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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i am telling you in my life i have never met a woman who sat there and let their friend do this ,especially at the job thoe.
I have.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:12 PM
 
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I have.
then there are people even females who said i should find her fb and just ask her
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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then there are people even females who said i should find her fb and just ask her
No, you need to learn from this and move on.

She was right in front of you but you didn't ask her. No need to track her down online.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:19 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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You had a chance, you didn't take it.

Move on.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:20 PM
 
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No, you need to learn from this and move on.

She was right in front of you but you didn't ask her. No need to track her down online.
but my question is why are people not all saying she showed no interest?
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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but my question is why are people not all saying she showed no interest?
People disagree. All that matters is what she said and what you do.

You need to forget her and move on.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:22 PM
 
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There was a woman i was interested in, she worked at a store and its the last time you can come in as a customer when i was there. so i wont see her there again, so i thought id ask if i would see her again (me wanting her to contact me basically) i said this is the last day, so you think ill see you again, she said, i dont think so . i said well, i want to see you again, but i guess i wont!

Keep in mind this woman knows i want her, even if she acts like she dont know. from what i know, people dont sit there and say i dont think so. they trow hint to ask for number or something or they give you something know they are interested. her own friend said i should have been talking to her but look at what shes doing when i do. i ask her how shes doing ect and try to basically show i am interested, and when i do that she acts funny or distant or give short answers. and she dont look at me . but when i am friendly and ask her things she seems to act cool, but this women just said the dont think so thing, and said thank you for shopping. after that she stopped looking at me (we look at each other sometimes) and she ignored me when i said bye when she was leaving. her body language showed that she is not looking at me.

some people are saying that its because i did not just ask to take her out. but to me it seems like she didnt give many hints or acted like she wanted it. why would a person say i dont think so, and not add to that and say, well i dont know, do you have social media or something. people are telling me to find her facebook, and ask her out. that seems extreme to me, am i the only one that sees this??
What does your post even mean?
Why is it the last time you can go into the store "as a customer"?
How do you know if the "woman" knows you want her?
Why would someone working at a store be open to answering all of your questions? It's a store right... not a bar?

You seem awkward and inexperienced...
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:32 PM
 
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What does your post even mean?
Why is it the last time you can go into the store "as a customer"?
How do you know if the "woman" knows you want her?
Why would someone working at a store be open to answering all of your questions? It's a store right... not a bar?

You seem awkward and inexperienced...

thats the thing, people do this all the time, i see people do it. her and her freind are loud and course at work. they do what they want and the boss say nothing, its the last time i can go in because they re modeling. she knows i want her because i try to get to know her and talk to her, she sees me look at her. women know these things, on top of that i told her friend directly to tell her i want her.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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thats the thing, people do this all the time, i see people do it. her and her freind are loud and course at work. they do what they want and the boss say nothing, its the last time i can go in because they re modeling. she knows i want her because i try to get to know her and talk to her, she sees me look at her. women know these things, on top of that i told her friend directly to tell her i want her.
You did everything except tell the girl you want.
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Old 02-22-2017, 03:07 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Ask "Kathy" out. She seems more interested.
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