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Before I met my beautiful girlfriend, I have struggled to make almost any girl interested in me. I would literally be rejected by tons of girls over and over multiple dates.
Now that I actually am in a loving relationship with this amazing girl, I am actually getting approached by girls out in the street or when I go out with friends, and I am receiving much more interest during conversations than before. Is there some kind of a sixth sense that girls have? Maybe they really are from other planet?
Happens to everyone. When you are looking for a relationship (and you want one but don't have it) you are (under the surface) unhappy and often frustrated--that can repel people (give of "negative vibes"). Then, once you are in a relationship you enjoy, you are happy and confident. The happiness and confidence attracts people (give off "positive vibes").
Personally, I think it's why frustrated angry people who drip hate for the opposite sex have so many more dating problems/problems meeting quality people than adjusted people. Sad thing is, I don't know there is much they can really do about it. Seems like people are either wired one way or another when it comes to these things.
I don't think it has to do with "women desiring someone who is already taken," that doesn't make any sense.
Like TMB stated....it's probably a confidence thing. When you're actually very happy and content....people pick up on those vibes. I witnessed many single people who are very happy get the same treatment.
It shouldn't be so difficult to make yourself happy but some people never know that joy unfortunately.
Before I met my beautiful girlfriend, I have struggled to make almost any girl interested in me. I would literally be rejected by tons of girls over and over multiple dates.
Now that I actually am in a loving relationship with this amazing girl, I am actually getting approached by girls out in the street or when I go out with friends, and I am receiving much more interest during conversations than before. Is there some kind of a sixth sense that girls have? Maybe they really are from other planet?
It's great this is happening for you. But your story reminds me of another where a beautiful woman got fed up with players and decides to date someone way below her league. This guy ends up getting confident and cheated on her. Anyway, I hope you focus on your beautiful girlfriend and not as much on all the new opportunities you are getting.
It's great this is happening for you. But your story reminds me of another where a beautiful woman got fed up with players and decides to date someone way below her league. This guy ends up getting confident and cheated on her. Anyway, I hope you focus on your beautiful girlfriend and not as much on all the new opportunities you are getting.
I will, she is amazing. It's just very interesting.
Unless you are walking around with a sign stating you are in a relationship, most of the women would have no idea. I think it's more of the confidence you are feeling.
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a beautiful woman got fed up with players and decides to date someone way below her league. This guy ends up getting confident and cheated on her.
How truly beautiful is she if she can only dumpster dive for players? Think about it.
I would have ditched her if I was that guy and I had better options, too, and I bet it had nothing to do with his confidence.
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