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Old 03-12-2017, 09:05 AM
 
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For as long as I remember, I've always heard that it's not good to date players (or cads, as they used to be called). But why is it considered bad? What's wrong with players?

 
Old 03-12-2017, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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It's only bad if you want or need a "nice" guy to date steadily or settle down with. If you're as much of a player as he and don't want anything more than that, have at it. Otherwise you're going to get hurt, so your choice.
 
Old 03-12-2017, 09:17 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Because you can't trust them, so if you're dating for a relationship you will be hurt.
 
Old 03-12-2017, 09:22 AM
 
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As long as you both know the score and are okay with it, then it's not necessarily a bad thing. The warning comes into play if you want to be with only him and he wants to be/play with many women. This is why it's best to be on the same page when you're dating someone.
 
Old 03-12-2017, 10:02 AM
 
Location: SW MO
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For as long as I remember, I've always heard that it's not good to date players (or cads, as they used to be called). But why is it considered bad? What's wrong with players?
Nothing wrong as long as you don't mind being used. To each their own!
 
Old 03-12-2017, 10:09 AM
 
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If you don't want to get emotionally attached and just want to fool around with them, I don't see a problem.

Just don't go in thinking you're that special person that cam change them.
 
Old 03-12-2017, 10:22 AM
 
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There isn't anything wrong with players. There is also nothing wrong with people who accept getting played if that is what they choose. Like others have said, getting involved with a player is fine as long as one knows the status of the relationship, if it is called a relationship.
 
Old 03-12-2017, 10:44 AM
 
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Nothing wrong as long as you don't mind being used. To each their own!
Who's doing the using?
 
Old 03-12-2017, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Who's doing the using?
By definition a player would be doing the using.
 
Old 03-12-2017, 10:56 AM
 
Location: On the Candy Eye Island
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For as long as I remember, I've always heard that it's not good to date players (or cads, as they used to be called). But why is it considered bad? What's wrong with players?
Let me ask, what would not be wrong with players?
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