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Old 03-23-2017, 12:49 PM
 
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i am age 32 male i have a decent job & car tall mixed with white & black, i only been in 1 serious relationship from Aug 2007 till may 3rd 2014 Girlfriend had cheated on me twice an we broke up... Now i'm not really used to dating an when i make attempts like 1 of the dating sites I have no luck with it... I never smoke, drink or any drugs im clean cut... i'm not getting any younger an im ready to date again... where do i start in today's world?? it seems I'm up against many odds... An Im not a party person etc, I recently drove to NYC from PA to spend $1,500 on a upscale escort for 3 hours however I don't want to keep doing this.. i want a real woman who wants to settle down an i just want to find my dream woman... where should I start?? i work come home an relax an as well into fitness seems hard trying to find someone

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Old 03-23-2017, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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Interesting screenname for a guy...screw OLD, go out in the real world and meet someone on your hiking activities. You'll find like minded ladies there. My biggest advice is to not care. Just be you, go with the flow and don't over-analyze.

Edit...lol @ upscale escort!
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Old 03-23-2017, 12:59 PM
 
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Well, first stop seeing escorts and get tested for STDs.

Next, reach out to anyone you find attractive.

For instance, you see an attractive female in the grocery store. You are about to pass her in an aisle. You say, "Hello," and keep walking. Make sure she looks up and sees you. Just smile as you keep shopping. If she finds you attractive she will give you signs.

Next aisle or two you see her again what do you say? "Hello again. We have to stop meeting like this." Laughter and smiles.

Baby steps. See how that goes and get back with us.
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Old 03-23-2017, 01:03 PM
 
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Interesting screenname for a guy...screw OLD, go out in the real world and meet someone on your hiking activities. You'll find like minded ladies there. My biggest advice is to not care. Just be you, go with the flow and don't over-analyze.

Edit...lol @ upscale escort!
I second the 'not caring.' That always worked for me.
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Old 03-23-2017, 04:34 PM
 
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ok will do
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Old 03-23-2017, 04:42 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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i am age 32 male i have a decent job & car tall mixed with white & black, i only been in 1 serious relationship from Aug 2007 till may 3rd 2014
You were in a relationship for 6.5 years? Maybe it was time to make commitment?
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Old 03-23-2017, 06:13 PM
 
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no no that wasn't the issue at all
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