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Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30
Yes once years ago after she cheated on me, I'll give her all due credit as she came out and told me as she was consumed with guilt which I appreciated but naturally the trust wasn't there on my part anymore so it wasn't enough to prevent me from ending it.
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I am of the same mindset as you, Londoncowboy. No matter how forthcoming an SO would be to me regarding their confessed infidelity, I would have definitely ended the relationship
immediately -
without hesitation. Once someone cheats and has ANY type of sexual relations with a person OTHER THAN their boyfriend/girlfriend, the trust has been
*irretrievably broken*. FOREVER. To trust a cheater and give them another "chance" is a foolish exercise in futility.
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It wasn't a nice situation obviously but luckily I've got my head screwed on and knew it couldn't continue so my detachment and my heartache wasn't as hard as you'd think
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Yes, detachment is a lot easier when your SO has cheated on you or has done something else wrong to you that is unforgivable. OTOH, when your SO has
not done something that serious to you but yet, they have hurt you immeasurably and have broken your heart beyond repair, detachment is a lot more difficult...and takes longer to follow through to completion.