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Old 04-16-2017, 09:21 AM
 
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My brother return home from college for holidays.We both are very close.He shared with me his stories that happened in his college.He even showed his friends pictures.That day he was messaging one of his friend.Suddenly my brother playfully said he wants me and his friend to date.I just laughed and changed the topic.He showed his friend picture and he was cute.His friend had seen me in pictures only in my brother's phone.Those were taken during chirstmas party and other family events.His friend knows about me quite well as my brother will always talk about my family to them.Did his friend said anything about me?His friend will also teases me to my brother.My brother return to his college after his holidays.He wore a watch that I brought for him.His friend playfully asked if I bought anything for him to my brother.That day I went to visit my brother to his college and also saw his friend.He was so cute.Ever since I saw him I really like him.We rarely talk as he and my brother was busy.we plan a surprise birthday party for my brother.I'm not friends with him in instagram and Facebook.I messaged him in instagram inviting him to the party.I guess he knew that I messaged him.He did not open the thread and see.He changed his profile to private from public and ignored my message.Its been days already since I'm waiting for his reply.Now I feel so hurt.And do not want to see or talk to him again.But i really like him.Now should I stay away from him?why is he avoiding me?I guess he doesn't likes me but i also had this feeling that he likes me. im really confused and do not know what to do.
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Old 04-16-2017, 09:27 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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So nothings happened and you're hurt

It seems he was just being friendly/playful " and you've mistaken it for interest unfortunately.
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Old 04-16-2017, 09:38 AM
 
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I'm confused as to why you're hurt.

You didn't really know the friend nor did you really talk to him....



Not trying to be mean, but it seems like you created all of this in your head.
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Old 04-16-2017, 09:47 AM
 
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This is something most of us got over in middle school. Some guy was paying a small bit of nonromantic attention to you and you turned it into the great love of your life. That is not how adults deal with social interaction.

Are you from a culture that overprotects its youth?
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Old 04-16-2017, 09:51 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I'm confused as to why you're hurt.

You didn't really know the friend nor did you really talk to him....



Not trying to be mean, but it seems like you created all of this in your head.
Yes agreed she's built up a picture and gone on from there thinking its reality
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Old 04-16-2017, 10:59 AM
 
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Is the '94' in your username a reference to the year your mom or dad was born?
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Old 04-17-2017, 05:27 AM
 
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I bet there is a collage of him in her bedroom.
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