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I was recently told, "Don't be scared to ask me to hangout, it may be that I can't, but still ask."
Why ask if she isn't able to?
How would you know, if you don't ask? Why can't you figure this out for yourself? Are you in highschool? There's a minimum age requirement to participate on this forum.
She's not talking like she can't. The fact that you perceive it that way indicates that you have issues. What she's doing, and what you oddly fail to perceive, is that she's giving you a green light. She's telling you she's into you, and would like to hang out.
She's not talking like she can't. The fact that you perceive it that way indicates that you have issues. What she's doing, and what you oddly fail to perceive, is that she's giving you a green light. She's telling you she's into you, and would like to hang out.
The fact she felt she had to say it to him that way is the bigger issue
However yes agreed completely Ruth it's a green light
The fact she felt she had to say it to him that way is the bigger issue
However yes agreed completely Ruth it's a green light
For the OP, it's a bigger issue, because he's making it into a big issue, to his own detriment. All she was saying is that sometimes she's busy, but in her free time, she'd be happy to hang out w/the OP. And he shouldn't take it personally if now and then she might have to turn him down.
Making a green light into a big issue is how some guys shoot themselves in the foot.
She said you can have cake but she may or may not have a fork.
Right. On a given day, she may not, but there are other days when she will. But the OP wants to read it all in the negative, and walk away from a good thing.
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