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Originally Posted by crazybad
I just started recently seeing this girl (2 dates/hang outs). I would say that I do like hanging out with her but I am not sure if it is genuine or if I have just been lonely for so long that I would enjoy hanging out with any girl in this way.
I know its not fair to compare, but my first girlfriend at 18, I felt like we truly "clicked", I loved hanging out with her, I was super attracted to her. I cannot remember if I knew all this from the beginning or if this happened over time (I realize things might be different with your first love)
Anyway, something is just nagging at me. Almost like maybe I am wasting my time and will never love her. Or that maybe there might be a stronger connection out there.
(sorry for this not really being a discussion but just me venting)
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Why do you have to love her? Isn't it enough that you enjoy her company? As long as you are not dishonest about your intentions, there is no reason at all you shouldn't just hang out and date.
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