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Old 08-04-2017, 01:16 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I don't see that as mean an over 20 year difference isn't really normal and everyone that knows her thinks the same thing.
These are the mean parts, where you assign YOUR judgmental and inappropriate feelings to their setup:

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...she has big time daddy issues because she never had one in her life at all.

...he knows what's going on there and milking it for all it's worth.

She could do so much better the guy is kind of disgusting and she's way out of his league.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I don't see that as mean an over 20 year difference isn't really normal and everyone that knows her thinks the same thing in this situation. If you took a survey on here most people would agree. I mostly only date younger but would never be interested in a 19 year old or something. I'm pretty sure most people would think it's wierd looking.
People will have their own opinions, nothing new.

If both people are happy in the relationship, then that's all that matters.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:22 PM
 
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These are the mean parts, where you assign YOUR judgmental and inappropriate feelings to their setup:
It's not inappropriate at all it's my opinion and everyone else that knows her in RL including other women agree with me.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It's not inappropriate at all it's my opinion and everyone else that knows her in RL including other women agree with me.
LOL @ you and all their other so-called "friends" gossiping about them SMH

Keep it classy
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:27 PM
 
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LOL @ you and all their other so-called "friends" gossiping about them SMH

Keep it classy
It wasn't gossip some of them were women that are extremely close to her that brought up the subject to me and they are concerned for her well being.

By all means if you think it's normal I'll head down to the college near me this September and chase me some 19 year olds. Yeah that wouldn't look creepy or anything.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It wasn't gossip some of them are people extremely close to her that brought up the subject to me and they are concerned for her well being.

By all means if you think it's normal I'll head down to the college near me this September and chase me some 19 year olds. Yeah that wouldn't look creepy or anything.
I'm not saying that what they're doing is normal. But your attitude about it sucks. It's just mean and judgy, is all. That's not desirable either.

People outside the standard "acceptable" age range CAN find love, even if they have issues.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:33 PM
 
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I'm not saying that what they're doing is normal. But your attitude about it sucks. It's just mean and judgy, is all. That's not desirable either.

I'm not really judging her I feel bad for her more than anything... I'm slightly judging him, mean no. I'm not into SJW and PC nonsense same as I am on the Politics board.

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People outside the standard "acceptable" age range CAN find love, even if they have issues
I agree just not in this situation I'm talking about someone I know in RL in my social circle not hypothetical or theoretical situations.

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Old 08-04-2017, 01:42 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm not into SJW and PC nonsense same as I am on the Politics board.
I'm not either.

Reminding people to be kind doesn't make someone a "social justice warrior." I guess you just like name-calling???

I'm into calling people out on their BS, and it's hypocritical for you to sit there judging him when you're not exemplifying the kindest behavior yourself.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:48 PM
 
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I'm not either.

Reminding people to be kind doesn't make someone a "social justice warrior." I guess you just like name-calling???

I'm into calling people out on their BS, and it's hypocritical for you to sit there judging him when you're not exemplifying the kindest behavior yourself.
I'm not seeing anything that you're talking about sorry. This must be a lost in translation over the internet thing :-/ My opinion stands on the specific situation that I know of in RL sorry. Would I make that call on every situation like that? No on this one I would and as I said it was brought up to me by people that know her and have known her longer.
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Old 08-04-2017, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm not seeing anything that you're talking about sorry. :-/ My opinion stands on the specific situation that I know of in RL sorry. Would I make that call on every situation like that? No on this one I would and as I said it was brought up to me by people that know her and have known her longer.
It's sad that you can't see it, even though I highlighted the exact words you used that indicated bad judgment. Oh well.

Just remember: Not every thought or "opinion" you have is worthy of expression.
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