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If you want to waste your time with a woman who won't even kiss you on the 4th or 5th date, more power to you. Most guys don't have the patience or the time to pursue a woman who is stringing them along like this. I lose interest quickly, and know I'm not the only one. If it takes 6 dates (or longer) for a woman to even kiss you, then she was never that into you in the first place.
I mean I don't try anything either, depending on where we are.
Based on what you've written above, this woman is NOT into you. Sorry to be so blunt/honest, but if nothing romantic has happened by the second/third date, then nothing will happen. She's just using you as someone to pay for dinner & whatever else you're paying for on the dates.
Her standing you up on the fourth date was a sure sign this was a waste of your time; however, my take on this is that she wasn't even into you before that. Again, not being ugly here - just honest.
Your are correct. Maybe I should write a book: She's Just Not That In to You.
I mean I don't try anything either, depending on where we are.
And this right here is exhibit A of why you might really be struggling with women. You go that many dates without making going for the kiss? Really? Even if the girl liked you and would have kissed you earlier on, you might actually be completely killing your chances with her by going out that many times with her and not kissing her. That's a great road to hearing the ''Let's just be friends'' speech when you finally make a move on date #5 or 6.
I'm only into casual sex these days. But when I was actually traditionally "dating", if I didn't get laid on the first date - I had 0 interest in seeing the girl again.
It seems even when you were doing traditional dating, you still had a casual dating mindset. If I'm looking for more than just sex, I'm not going to disqualify a woman because she won't put out on a 1st date/meet. That's a bit ridiculous.
I'm only into casual sex these days. But when I was actually traditionally "dating", if I didn't get laid on the first date - I had 0 interest in seeing the girl again.
I just hope you let them know that before they "wasted" their time on you if just getting laid wasn't also what they were looking for.
There wasn't even a "sorry" in the text. Rude, thoughtless & disrespectful = a big no in my book, male or female. I sure wouldn't give her another chance, she didn't even have the decency to apologize.
There wasn't even a "sorry" in the text. Rude, thoughtless & disrespectful = a big no in my book, male or female. I sure wouldn't give her another chance, she didn't even have the decency to apologize.
Yup, same. After a text like that, I wouldn't even respond. I'd just move on.
She was probably off screwing some guy who spent no $ on her. she probably looks at you and sees dollar signs. Since tennis is a low buck date, she nexted you.
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