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Yes. A man who has a felony conviction for domestic violence will have many women to choose from when he gets out of prison, and likely will have women who want to be his "pen pal" in prison if he is attractive and charming.
Yes. A man who has a felony conviction for domestic violence will have many women to choose from when he gets out of prison, and likely will have women who want to be his "pen pal" in prison if he is attractive and charming.
God knows why. But it's true.
^^^^^Truth. I know a woman who just married a man who is in prison. He was convicted of manslaughter and given a 20 year sentence. He's now down to four years left. She specifically was targeting prisoners as a pen pal. She said when she met him for the first time on her first visitation, she said it was love at first sight.
The real crux of the whole thing is that these are all women who are damaged. In their earlier lives they’ve been abused either by their parents, their fathers, their first husbands, their boyfriends, whatever. They’ve been sexually abused, psychologically, emotionally abused. These are women who've been hurt. And when you’re in a relationship with a man in prison. He’s in prison. He’s not going to hurt you. He can’t hurt you. So you’re always in a state of control because you’re the one who’s on the outside. You’re free. You go in and you visit him. You can decide whether to accept his collect phone calls. So in a way, even though cons are very manipulative—that’s why we call them con men and they are manipulative with the women—it’s still up to the woman to decide how far she wants to go and she knows she can't be hurt. And every single woman I interviewed had been abused in the past and that's what I found out. That was the big secret.
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