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Old 09-27-2017, 07:47 AM
 
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OK, I guess I have another question. Maybe it is somehow related to the question I posted before.






My boyfriend always talks about our future, I mean, something like where our kid should go to school, "you will be a very beautiful bride", what kind of joke he will talk about in our wedding, where should he buy a house makes more sense. He even gave our future kid a nickname.


However, the thing is we never said I love you to each other, and we didn't exchange key to our apts neither. I met his family and his friends already though.


I guess my question is somehow I feel the action and the talk don't match very well. I don't know why he said that a lot, but didn't really do anything? Maybe he just said that for fun or to make me happy?


The other small question is: one day we were walking together on street during the night. I said I like you very much, and he didn't say anything but kissed me for a long time. Then I said why you didn't say "me too", he said I thought the kiss is saying that and then he said me too. Please tell me he is not trying to avoid saying that by the kiss?


Thanks a lot!
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Old 09-27-2017, 07:50 AM
 
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How long have you been together?

Maybe he's not a very sentimental guy.
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Old 09-27-2017, 07:52 AM
 
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How long have you been together?

Maybe he's not a very sentimental guy.


5 months
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Old 09-27-2017, 07:56 AM
 
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5 months
You could always ask. You could tell him that you love him (if you do), and ask if he loves you, too.
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Old 09-27-2017, 07:56 AM
 
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5 months is hardly any time at all.

That future talk is just playing. You can play along if you like, but don't take it a bit seriously.

Relax and continue getting to know each other.
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:01 AM
 
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5 months.....
That is still 'honeymoon' period pillow talk
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:03 AM
 
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5 months is nothing. My husband and I weren't even exclusive until a year into dating. Just relax and get to know each other. It is way too soon to be thinking about marriage.
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:06 AM
 
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Only time will tell you if he is the one for you. At this stage, don't expect too much from him. Is easier to say than getting it done. Reality will crush him in life at some point, and when that happen, everything he told you will vanish. You should watch out for any guys who say anything about what will happen in the future because the future might never happen. You have to focus on here and now.

I hope you find a way in your relationship, and if it doesn't work out, simply move on.
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Old 09-27-2017, 09:59 AM
 
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OK, I guess I have another question. Maybe it is somehow related to the question I posted before.




Thanks a lot!
yes, same answer to pretty much same thread.
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