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Old 10-26-2017, 07:01 PM
 
Location: Gulf Coast
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I want to know what happens ... the suspense is killing me!
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Old 10-26-2017, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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I want to know what happens ... the suspense is killing me!
Me too!
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Old 11-28-2017, 02:39 AM
 
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Well, it turns out he's not interested. It's a shame but happens to a lot of people. My dad and I must have misread 'the signs' ��
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Old 11-28-2017, 05:24 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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How do you know? What happened?
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Old 11-28-2017, 05:33 AM
 
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Well, it turns out he's not interested. It's a shame but happens to a lot of people. My dad and I must have misread 'the signs' ��
not surprising.

a lot of times...we tend to think we see signs that arent really there. more often than not , if the other person is like that...then it means they arent interested in most cases.
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Old 11-28-2017, 07:08 AM
 
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When I was going to school I worked as a cashier at a liquor store in the evenings. There was one customer, a "really hot chick" who was always very nice and chatty with me. I mentioned it to someone and he said "oh her she's just like that with everyone" so after that I didn't think anything of it. Eventually I end up dating one of her good friends so I end up meeting her in social situations. She was still always very chatty with me and seemed to always fit herself into any conversation I'm in. I'm dating her friend though so I still think she's just being friendly.


After her friend and I break up she becomes even more aggressively friendly with me. Due to past experience and blinders I seemed to be wearing I still didn't see it as interest in me specifically until finally her friend informs me that she won't stop asking about me but she's too shy to ask me out directly. After that I didn't ask her out right away but next time I saw her at a party when she got all aggressively friendly with me I finally saw it for what it was and made my move, and now we are married with children. lol


Man I was blind as a bat the whole time. I had to be hit over the head with it before I could see it. The fact that she was frequently going to a liquor store to buy granola bars and bottled water should have been my first clue.
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Old 11-28-2017, 08:31 AM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Doesn't sound like shy. Sounds like not interested and being polite.
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Again, this person does not sound shy.

Ask him out, see what happens but don't be surprised if he rejects your offer.
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Well, it turns out he's not interested. It's a shame but happens to a lot of people. My dad and I must have misread 'the signs' ��
Sorry OP but I knew it from how you described his personality.
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Old 11-28-2017, 02:17 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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Sorry to hear that.
The important thing though is that you did what you needed to do and found out.
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