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In general, I would think it odd that he doesn't offer her a ride (without knowing more), in this case, I get the feeling there is more, whether she is needy or he just is not into her.... I dunno.
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That says he has one day off and he doesn't want to waste it pedaling someone who can't get a car around.
Giving her a ride home is not wasting his time pedaling her around. She's not asking for rides to and from work, as some here seem to think; she's asking for a ride home from his place after visiting him. Sounds like he's using her, to me.
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Giving her a ride home is not wasting his time pedaling her around. She's not asking for rides to and from work, as some here seem to think; she's asking for a ride home from his place after visiting him. Sounds like he's using her, to me.
He's not using her. If what you're implying is that he's using her for sex, then she is allowing him to use her. She can put a stop to having sex with him at any time if he won't give her a ride home. Why don't you think she should have her own transportation? Being independent by owning her own vehicle (even a cheapo ugly used car) means that she doesn't have to depend on him (or anyone) to give her a ride anywhere.
A person can only 'use' you if you ALLOW them to do so.
Did she answer why he never goes to her place yet? I skimmed through the answers and didn't see anything. I'm wondering why she always has to go to his and he never makes the effort to go to hers.
Regardless, I remember this girl from her other posts and they're definitely not compatible. She should've taken everyone's advice and broken it off a long time ago because nothing is going to make this work.
He's not using her. If what you're implying is that he's using her for sex, then she is allowing him to use her. She can put a stop to having sex with him at any time if he won't give her a ride home. A person can only 'use' you if you ALLOW them to do so.
So which one is it? First you said, "He's not using her." Then you said. "If what you're implying is that he's using her for sex, then she is allowing him to use her." You sound confused.
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Why don't you think she should have her own transportation?
Show me where I said that.
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Being independent by owning her own vehicle (even a cheapo ugly used car) means that she doesn't have to depend on him (or anyone) to give her a ride anywhere.
All she was asking for was a ride home from his house now and then instead of having to ride the bus home every time. How did that turn into her needing to get a car? You're missing the point of her question; is he treating her right? Going by this one small piece of the picture, I would say no.
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