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From a religious standpoint, it's better for me to wait as I won't have to deal with unwanted STDs, and I get to learn her body, what she likes, etc. I'm going to keep it real: I wouldn't want an experienced woman as I view them as used cars: lots of mileage and susceptible to maintenance issues.
Guess I could say the same about experienced men, but the reality is it's far more productive to have a conversation with them about how they think about women and relationships, rather than to assume that x cause leads to y effect.
Some guys carry massive damage from bad relationships in the past. Some guys are looking for a mama for their kids from prior relationships. Some guys simultaneously hate women and desperately crave one to fill some void they think they have in their hearts. Some guys have STDs.
Funny how a virgin man gets "what's wrong with him?" while a virgin woman is a prize. I couldn't disagree more on both counts, but hey...get what you want. But at the same time, I would laughingly also advise...be careful what you wish for. I think there are many areas of human compatibility that should come very much ahead of such a detail as this one, knowing as I do how hard relationships can be, but it's a lesson no one can learn except from first-hand experience. And sometimes not even then.
I lost my virginity at 19 and married at 27. No regrets. I gave it up to someone I cared about and loved. I like being experienced and don't mind having "mileage". I'm better sexually and my husband is the direct beneficiary of that.
I didn't say that but experience isn't everything and there can be some bad things that come with it.
"Experience" IS everything, in terms of life.
That's why we are here! To experience things! There is a quote by Anais Nin that says, "Your world is as big as you make it," and I absolutely believe that is true. Sure, some experiences are more enjoyable with others, but we are not put here with a pain-free guarantee.
There is 100% nothing wrong with having experience, and to deride someone for that is purely sour grapes.
Live or don't live, but stop trying to make other people feel bad for not living their lives the way you would.
Virginity is necessary to be sure the child a woman is carrying, is her husband's. I know, it didn't make sense back in history, either.
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