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Hello, my ex girlfriend dumped me like 10 days ago. I was doing the no contact but made a mistake asking her out for a coffee on Monday. She responded with: "no thanks, i'd rather see someone else". I got a little bit mad by that answer so i just instantly blocked her on facebook and replied with: "give me a call if you change your mind". So.. 2 days later on Wednesday she called me and said: "you told me to call you if i change my mind" and 30 seconds into the call she said: "i'm just kidding, just wanted to irritate you, i actually haven't changed my mind. How are you doing?".. I just said that i'm fine then she wished me good night. When i picked up the phone i told her that i'm currently a bit busy and in a rush so can't really talk much (didn't wanna seem needy or desperate). I tried calling her myself the same night 2 hours after our call but she didn't answer. Also tried calling yesterday evening - she also didn't answer.. I will be doing the no contact from now on even though i still love her a lot..
Why did you think she called me? Just trying to get her ego fed, playing with me or what? I'm really confused..
Thank you
Doesn't matter, you shouldn't have called her, and she seems to be a kid. You don't need that in your life. From this stand point, it looks like she has you wrapped around her fingers and she knows it. Run, and don't look back.
In your previous thread you stated she broke up with you because you were too needy and clingy. She then called you and after a couple of minutes said "your minutes are up." Now she is further playing games with you which keeps you in a state of confusion and "on the hook," so to speak. She sounds like a real peach.
No contact -- REAL no contact -- is the way to go with this one.
Hello, my ex girlfriend dumped me like 10 days ago. I was doing the no contact but made a mistake asking her out for a coffee on Monday. She responded with: "no thanks, i'd rather see someone else". I got a little bit mad by that answer so i just instantly blocked her on facebook and replied with: "give me a call if you change your mind". So.. 2 days later on Wednesday she called me and said: "you told me to call you if i change my mind" and 30 seconds into the call she said: "i'm just kidding, just wanted to irritate you, i actually haven't changed my mind. How are you doing?".. I just said that i'm fine then she wished me good night. When i picked up the phone i told her that i'm currently a bit busy and in a rush so can't really talk much (didn't wanna seem needy or desperate). I tried calling her myself the same night 2 hours after our call but she didn't answer. Also tried calling yesterday evening - she also didn't answer.. I will be doing the no contact from now on even though i still love her a lot..
Why did you think she called me? Just trying to get her ego fed, playing with me or what? I'm really confused..
Thank you
WTF? What a piece of work. I think she did you a favor by showing you she is a true ahole. Block her without any second thought. DO IT. NOW. Quit calling her. SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU.
Hello, my ex girlfriend dumped me like 10 days ago. I was doing the no contact but made a mistake asking her out for a coffee on Monday. She responded with: "no thanks, i'd rather see someone else". I got a little bit mad by that answer so i just instantly blocked her on facebook and replied with: "give me a call if you change your mind". So.. 2 days later on Wednesday she called me and said: "you told me to call you if i change my mind" and 30 seconds into the call she said: "i'm just kidding, just wanted to irritate you, i actually haven't changed my mind. How are you doing?".. I just said that i'm fine then she wished me good night. When i picked up the phone i told her that i'm currently a bit busy and in a rush so can't really talk much (didn't wanna seem needy or desperate). I tried calling her myself the same night 2 hours after our call but she didn't answer. Also tried calling yesterday evening - she also didn't answer.. I will be doing the no contact from now on even though i still love her a lot..
Why did you think she called me? Just trying to get her ego fed, playing with me or what? I'm really confused..
Thank you
I was wondering why you called her after her call to you. I re-read your post and I see why.
You are going to have to resist those urges to call her. And if she calls you - don't be tempted to answer.
She did it to get you back on the hook and it worked!
Don't call her and don't pick up the phone!
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