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So my girlfriend left yesterday afternoon from here house while I was also at her house cutting wood and doing yard work. She said she’d be home in a little while at around 4pm but got home closer to 7:30. I had made dinner and homemade corn bread muffins and she came home and we had dinner. Later in the night I asked her what she was doing on Christmas Day and she said she was going back to her ex’s house to see the inlaws again. She also said her stomach was hurting and asked if I’d be upset if she slept alone and I slept in the guest bedroom. I told her I wouldn’t be upset but I actually sort of was upset. It’s Christmas Eve for God’s sake. So I get up this morning and spend about an hour with her and she gives me a hug goodbye and says merry Christmas. We have been dating for 8 months and I though like usual a goodbye kiss was in order. My family is far away and I’m in a new town with no friends so my Christmas has so far been a huge bore. She says they are her family and only sees them once a year. I get it but I also wanted to spend time with her. Not sure why I don’t rate more than an hour or two of time on Xmas eve and Xmas day.
You're the same guy that has the gf getting "you up" texts. Now she's spending the holidays with her ex and afterwards won't share the bed with you?
Bro.
How many more red flags do you need shoved down your throat to bounce on this. She is creating major insecurity in you and honestly I don't think it's because you're naturally insecure. I do think you're a bit naive though.
I was just talking to my neighbor and we were reminiscing about our past lives and marriage I had, and bf's we had over our lives...and how thankful we are to have not gotten more legally entangled. I know her 50 some yrs when I first landed in SM and she went thru my divorce with me and we went boy scouting much of our younger lives.
Perhaps don't have expectations and then not a lot of disappointments. That can be tough but probably very true.
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Unless her & the ex have a child together, I see no reason to spend the Holiday with him & her ex inlaws. She is clearly putting him before you. If it were me, I'd be looking for a new partner.
Yeah, honestly, it sounds like a barely believable made-up excuse to spend the night in some other guy's bed.
Even if she was genuinely at the ex in-laws, who would leave an 8 month BF alone during the holidays when he has nothing to do?
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