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Your not throwing away 15 years of your life, she is. You should have decided in the beginning whether to be a wimp and put up with this garbage or have a spine and expect her to be a full partner in your marriage. If she can't devote her time, affection and interest to you and you alone, you don't have a marriage. Dump her ASAP. 15 years is irrelevant, doesn't matter if its 15 days or 15 years. It's over and you need to see that. No spouse should have to put up with any of this.
You should have divorced her when she had 1st cheated on your all those yrs ago.Advice..get your butt to a court house to get started on that divorce that you should have had done all those yrs ago.Now because you've been married to this person for 10yrs +...they are now entitled to half of your pension and anything else you have going on.
You have been in love with someone who never respected the marriage like you have all these years...work on getting that divorce.
I feel like this is cheating but she says her heart is big enough to love two men and she wishes she could live in Dominican Republic so that she could live a double life, be with me most of the time but be with him sometimes too.
She still continues and has now been telling me she has been training me all the love making ways and things he used to do to her so that I would be like him.
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I isolated certain parts of your OP. No guy puts up with this Mod cut: off-topic comment. read the part I isolated aloud while you look yourself in the eyes in the mirror. Whatever you see reflected in the eyes looking back at you should tell you how you need to handle the situation.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 12-11-2017 at 03:12 PM..
Reason: Cleaning up personal attacks.
What are you waiting for to leave? Her to call out his name during "passionate moments"? Probably not far away and even closer if you let her take the trip and come back home.
Awww. wow I am sorry. You were used by her for 15 years. It's when someone gets money that they show their true colors. So it's the same for women then huh. It's usually the nerdy ugly guys who settled with whoever took them and then suddenly became rich then BAM! left their wife with a younger woman who obviously just want their money.
Buy why is she pining for an ex con is beyond me. There really is nothing you can do when the other person has decided to leave. Especially now that they can afford it. Sorry. But, you really can't do anything here.
Yep, sounds like my ex. She wanted to spend, spend, spend. Anytime I said we need to stop, she would but then sure enough guilt me into spending again. I dumped her for this and other reasons. Sadly didn't stop debt...
OP, I would seek to end it. It seems like it is over based on the post. THAT said, I love the one ex I'm on good terms with (not the ex I spoke of, a different one), drove my most recent ex crazy. Why, because I mentioned her (the first ex.) It isn't my fault I had good times with her. I did have a life before her, and now have a life after her.
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I dumped her for this and other reasons. Sadly didn't stop debt...
