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Sometimes I get so hopeless that I'll never find a good boyfriend. It leads me into the arms of bad men because they're the only ones who are willing to accept me.
At what age should I give into the desperation and settle for a crappy guy, or just go to a sperm bank? Please don't say "never". I want to have children and start a family so ideally I'll have to be at a childbearing age. I was thinking maybe 26-28 is the right age to give up completely.
Sometimes I get so hopeless that I'll never find a good boyfriend. It leads me into the arms of bad men because they're the only ones who are willing to accept me.
At what age should I give into the desperation and settle for a crappy guy, or just go to a sperm bank? Please don't say "never". I want to have children and start a family so ideally I'll have to be at a childbearing age. I was thinking maybe 26-28 is the right age to give up completely.
They have the answers at the student health clinic at your school. Call there today to schedule an appointment to talk to a counselor about these feelings of lack that you're having.
If you continue to post without actually trying to do something about it, then we all will know you're just looking for attention and affirmation and not really interested in feeling better.
Aren't you afraid your internet boyfriend who's been blackmailing you and making your life hell is going to answer that ad you have posted above, looking for a boyfriend on the internet?
Aren't you afraid your internet boyfriend who's been blackmailing you and making your life hell is going to answer that ad you have posted above, looking for a boyfriend on the internet?
Yeah, that sad ad says it all, unfortunately.
OP, a boyfriend cannot "cure" you. All you're doing is setting yourself up to be victimized AGAIN by offering yourself as prey to manipulative users who will see you as the perfect target.
Call the student health center today. It's free. You have no more excuses. Then once you figure out how to manage your emotions, you will no longer be a "broken girl" looking for healing. Because who wants to take that on anyway?
Look at it this way, have you volunteer to do something to help out the community? If not, how about start from there, and you might end up with the right guy. If you don't want to contribute to the society and simply looking for the best, then you might never get it. On top of that, appreciate what you have in life. If people treat you right, don't take them for granted, appreciate what they did for you and feel bless for just having them in your life.
I am not saying you didn't do anything to contribute to the society, instead, I'm trying to get to the bottom of it as to why you always landed on a wrong guy. Sometime when you try to help out others, in return, you will get something amazing out of it. In terms of age, that really all depends on your own perception. Even if you go to the sperm bank and get pregnant and have a kid, how can you even be sure the baby is not going to give you more problem instead of a happy family.
In order to find happiness, you have to satisfy of what you have. I know this respond is more than what you are asking, which is simply the questions of what age should give up on looking for a boyfriend, but I want you to know that sometime the problem is within yourself, not the situation or circumstance.
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