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Old 02-08-2018, 03:44 PM
 
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Suppose a guy really likes you. He tells you "You know I was just watching Matilda and I just want to say I would love you even if you were Miss Trunchbull. Even if you were rude, temperamental, even psychotic. In fact, maybe I would find you more beautiful this way" Would you run or would you think his intentions were sweet? If you wouldn't like him saying this, would you still be his friend, even if you were friends for a while?
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Old 02-08-2018, 03:48 PM
 
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Suppose a guy really likes you. He tells you "You know I was just watching Matilda and I just want to say I would love you even if you were Miss Trunchbull. Even if you were rude, temperamental, even psychotic. In fact, maybe I would find you more beautiful this way" Would you run or would you think his intentions were sweet? If you wouldn't like him saying this, would you still be his friend, even if you were friends for a while?
That's very odd. For how long have you been with him?


It is probably meant to be a creative compliment but expressed in a clumsy way. I wouldn't put too much weight on that statement if he treats you well otherwise.
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Old 02-08-2018, 03:50 PM
 
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I think I would've had to ask him "What on Earth are you talking about?" LOL
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Old 02-08-2018, 04:06 PM
 
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Ask him to pass you the bong.
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Old 02-08-2018, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Except for the " maybe I would find you more beautiful this way". I'd say it was a very awkward declaration of unconditional love.
But adding that part is really weird. Does he want a whacky dominatrix?
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Old 02-08-2018, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Um....thats a kids movie and would be freaked out. Lol
Wow....
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Old 02-08-2018, 06:27 PM
 
Location: USA
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I think I would've had to ask him "What on Earth are you talking about?" LOL
I'd say "You're strange. Bye." "LOL" indeed
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Old 02-08-2018, 06:32 PM
 
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Okay, I just got THE oddest deja vu.

I could SWEAR this has been asked in this forum before. I mean right down to the Miss Trunchbull reference.

I'm not being sly, I honest to God am pretty much 99.9% certain this has been asked before.

Wouldn't it be a weird coincidence if the same guy has hit up two different women on CD-R, by random chance?

Anyway, OP, anyone saying he wished I were like some other person would be an automatic out. So I wouldn't care about it being weird, not weird, etc. I mean I could tell him I wished he were more like Henry Cavill, I'll bet THAT would go over like a fart in church. It's weird and kind of a jab to say such a thing to another person, and it's also uncomfortably juvenile. Like..."what's wrong with him?"-level juvenile. I would feel that was odd, too odd to keep going forward with the dude, certainly. Something's broken.
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Old 02-08-2018, 07:15 PM
 
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I would not like that.
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Old 02-08-2018, 07:18 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Suppose a guy really likes you. He tells you "You know I was just watching Matilda and I just want to say I would love you even if you were Miss Trunchbull. Even if you were rude, temperamental, even psychotic. In fact, maybe I would find you more beautiful this way" Would you run or would you think his intentions were sweet? If you wouldn't like him saying this, would you still be his friend, even if you were friends for a while?
If a lady said the bold part to me, I'd probably take it the wrong way.
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