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Originally Posted by Ann Onn
You assume they broke up.... but what if they haven't? If it were me, I'd reach out to my friend and find out.
If they did break up within the last month, your googly-eyed friend could probably use a friend to talk to.
If they haven't broken up, I'd screenshot the dating app profile and messages to show him. He deserves to know.
The questionable one can't claim the profile was old and he wasn't active on it anymore, if you caught him on the site sending messages. Even if it was an "innocent" nice to have met you message, he's still on the app and looking.
Don't leave your friend in the dark if they haven't broken up.
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So I get the impression they broke up. The guy has his face as clear as day in his profile and states he is single. Being that there is a huge amount of gay guys that know him and my friend's friends are all on the apps too I doubt he would be that dumb to put it out there. But you never know.
I did text my friend asking how things were going. He didn't mention anything about this guy (their status). I am going to ask him, but he just caught a plan to NYC. I will ask him later today and mention to him how I found out.
But I thought something was up two weeks ago. I was out of town, and my friend all of a sudden really wanted to see me and hang out. He was pushier than normal, which I found odd, which I told my friend I was traveling with, "Why do I get the impression they broke up?". Because he seemed to get almost needy with me, which when he was dating this guy he wasn't at all. I could sense that all of a sudden he had a lot more "free" time.