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Old 04-20-2018, 02:58 PM
 
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they had no pictures of themselves up on their social media account and private messaged you with a picture of themselves, asking you to go out?
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Old 04-20-2018, 03:01 PM
 
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I guess it would depend on the picture, and more than that, on what other go/no-go stuff they presented.

I can see why people might not want photos of themselves circulating around the internet.
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Old 04-20-2018, 03:12 PM
 
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I guess it would depend on the picture, and more than that, on what other go/no-go stuff they presented.

I can see why people might not want photos of themselves circulating around the internet.
A guy asked me out like this, first message. There was no talking or anything else to establish other go/no-go stuff. I've never seen him before, he just asked me out out of the blue. Why would he even want to go out with ME like that?
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Old 04-20-2018, 03:17 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Pass.
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Old 04-20-2018, 03:20 PM
 
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That's weird and a little unsettling.

I wouldn't.
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Old 04-20-2018, 03:29 PM
 
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That's weird and a little unsettling.

I wouldn't.
Right. What's tripping me out is that he didn't think it was unsettling at all. He just said he wasn't a big selfie taker. Meanwhile, he's probably stalking the hell out of my profile and feels good about it, all while not allowing me to do the same.
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Old 04-20-2018, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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they had no pictures of themselves up on their social media account and private messaged you with a picture of themselves, asking you to go out?
I can’t even say “hell no” strong enough to emphasize how NOT down I would be with that.
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Old 04-20-2018, 04:05 PM
 
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they had no pictures of themselves up on their social media account and private messaged you with a picture of themselves, asking you to go out?
Just a random person? Not a friend of a friend even?

My first question would be how did you find my profile.


It's unlikely, but not impossible that I'd ever be convinced to go out with them
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Old 04-20-2018, 04:10 PM
 
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I can’t even say “hell no” strong enough to emphasize how NOT down I would be with that.
This.
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Old 04-20-2018, 04:15 PM
 
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Just a random person? Not a friend of a friend even?

My first question would be how did you find my profile.


It's unlikely, but not impossible that I'd ever be convinced to go out with them
Yes he's a random person, not a friend of a friend. I had never seen him before but we apparently belong to a group together.
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