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Old 05-28-2018, 02:51 PM
 
Location: A Yankee in northeast TN
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so what? If he’s hitting on her it’s still a sincere compliment!

It means he likes her as a human being enough to want more then just a friendship and thinks she’s an awesome and attractive person. Oh the horror!!!
Next time why doesn't he just walk up to someone and tell her he'd like to f* her, you suppose she'd take it as a compliment? Context is everything guys.
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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So what if he’s hitting on her, is right. Why isn’t a guy allowed to hit on (AKA: show romantic interest) on a woman? Why is this so taboo on here to some? Have we taken a time machine back 100 years?
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:06 PM
 
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Well, she should have at least said thank you, but if you want to go out with her or something, you're going to have to do more than that. Ask her out or tell her that you want to date her. Her grandmother probably tells her she's pretty too.
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Next time why doesn't he just walk up to someone and tell her he'd like to f* her, you suppose she'd take it as a compliment? Context is everything guys.
This is horse malarkey.

Why isn’t he allowed to hit on her? What the hell is wrong with showing interest in a woman he likes? This forum never ceases to amaze me. What a cesspool with some of these things I’m reading.
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:09 PM
 
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This is horse malarkey.

Why isn’t he allowed to hit on her? What the hell is wrong with showing interest in a woman he likes? This forum never ceases to amaze me. What a cesspool with some of these things I’m reading.

Nothing wrong with a man hitting on a woman. Some women are just prudes (or more likely married already and have a different mindset).
And some of the guys are just straight out c&ckblockers.
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Baltimore
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All I know is that as a single 34 yo guy if some women I was conversing with told me that I was "hot af" I'd be the first one down at the court house filing a restraining order. lol
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Ha! OP good for you. Now has she yet responded?
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:12 PM
 
Location: A Yankee in northeast TN
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This is horse malarkey.

Why isn’t he allowed to hit on her? What the hell is wrong with showing interest in a woman he likes? This forum never ceases to amaze me. What a cesspool with some of these things I’m reading.
Nobody is saying it's taboo. What some of you don't seem to get is that it matters how you do it.
Why don't you just walk up to a woman and tell her that, maybe because you realize there ARE boundaries?
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:13 PM
 
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All I know is that as a single 34 yo guy if some women I was conversing with told me that I was "hot af" I'd be the first one down at the court house filing a restraining order. lol

Oh please. I've told a couple of guys that and no one filed a restraining order on me. In fact, they were flattered and loved it.
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Old 05-28-2018, 03:13 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Of course I was hitting on her lol And yes I was being sincere.
Well, that's why she froze. She wasn't expecting it. Plus, you put her on the spot; she didn't know how to respond. That would be especially awkward if she's not into you that way.

Did she blush?
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