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I think the problem with the redhead is that, on my profile I specify that I'm a blue collar worker with some college. While she's a lawyer. The reason she's responded to me is because I'm physically attractive but she's hesitant because I'm a carpenter and not someone with degrees and a fancy job. That's my current assessment of the situation. I could be wrong.
You've really got to stop reading into these interactions and take them on face value.
You are assigning all kinds of back stories to these women that may be WAY off base.
One day at a time, and read what is right in front off you.
That she's been hurt and has trust issues and is hesitant because of your differing education and possibly class issues. She's been giving you one-word answers that most of us think are signaling non-interest, none of which have pointed to deep oceans of melancholy under the surface.
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That she's been hurt and has trust issues and is hesitant because of your differing education and possibly class issues. She's been giving you one-word answers that most of us think are signaling non-interest, none of which have pointed to deep oceans of melancholy under the surface.
She is screaming at him that she isn't interested. I heard it loud and clear way back.
I just can't understand why the OP has ANY interest in her with these "conversations". It should have been over after a couple of exchanges.
Here's what I don't get. Why has she responded? It's a dating site, we gets new messages every day. I imagine the women get far more than the men. Am I really to assume that people respond to every message just to be polite? And there has been nothing polite about redhead's interaction with me. Polite would be saying "I'm not interested." She's not being polite.
This will all be resolved soon as I messaged her "If you're not interested you can simply tell me that." I suppose she needed permission to use her manners.
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