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I think you should tell him why. Tell him again that you are stopping communication because he being too busy does not work for you.
I would speak to him at this point. But I wouldn't give him anything to argue against and keep the vollying texts going. Plain and simple: "Look, I'm sorry, I'm just not feeling it. You're a great guy but we're not a match. Take care."
So, there's a guy I like, but it turns out that he's super busy with his career. I want more time with him (or whomever I'm with) and he knows that, but he has asked me to stick around and be patient. Should I?
Perhaps focus on Quality (time) over quantity -- for example agree to a day or two per week to spend together, and then leave him alone to be "super busy" on the other days.
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Originally Posted by srjth
... I want more time with him (or whomever I'm with) and he knows that...
Perhaps focus on Quality (time) over quantity -- for example agree to a day or two per week to spend together, and then leave him alone to be "super busy" on the other days.
Men don't like this. We have other s**t to do.
Guys who are into their SO do like spending couples time together, actually.
Guys who are into their SO do like spending couples time together, actually.
But not 24/7. Since the OP did not specify how much time she wants, it is impossible to comment on it specifically. (And my suggestion of a couple of days a week does assume couples time.)
Perhaps focus on Quality (time) over quantity -- for example agree to a day or two per week to spend together, and then leave him alone to be "super busy" on the other days.
Men don't like this. We have other s**t to do.
I do too darlin. When dating I like to spend time 2-3 days a week together (prob the weekend and 1 weeknight) and text daily. (Or talk on phone daily if he prefers that). This guy didn’t have time for nothing, not even a text. Those were his words. Whether it’s true or not, I don’t give a crap anymore.
PS- now he’s texted me from another phone number asking if I’ve blocked him. I’ve never seen him text so much. Whatever, I’m over it.
Guys who are into their SO do like spending couples time together, actually.
This is true. My ex husband (who was legit busy) and my ex bf did.
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