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I'm back, last week I had a panic post here about the guy I'm hanging out with not reaching me, apparently he texted me 2 days after that. He told me he'd been busy the entire week and asked me out for lunch on Sunday.
I asked him when we met how the week went (I prefer talking in person so I can gauge his reaction), work happened, he was on duty 7 to 10 everyday and was worn out, he unplugged all electronic devices the day before just to sleep. We had fun at the lunch, spent 4h there, (much longer than I expected), we ate the full course then left to somewhere nearby for dessert. After that, we took a troll but it started raining with temp. dropped to 40 so I started shivering and we decided to end there.
Like previous date, no physical touching other than hugging when we met and said goodbye but it was super fun. Half way through the meet, we were talking about our favorite movie genres, he said he didn't watch this specific type of movies and I happen to enjoy that genre, so I just told him he had to see it with me as a punishment for contacting too late. He agreed and even joked he might start doing this on purpose for the punishment.
I'm glad I created chance myself, but I'm again still wondering how he sees me due to lack of physical touch (which everyone says it's the most obvious sign of someone interested in you)
I'm glad I created chance myself, but I'm again still wondering how he sees me due to lack of physical touch (which everyone says it's the most obvious sign of someone interested in you)
Physical touch is the most obvious sign that someone wants to have sex with you.
Consistent and caring communication is the most obvious sign someone is interested in you as a person.
He may be a gentleman. They are underrated these days.
He doesnt see you. A second date, hes too busy, just like the last thread you posted, hes not that into you. YOu arent as interesting to him as he is to you. Give up now before you fall too far.
BTW why arent you moving on him instead of waiting for him to move on you? That will let you know if hes interested.
Physical touch is the most obvious sign that someone wants to have sex with you.
Consistent and caring communication is the most obvious sign someone is interested in you as a person.
He may be a gentleman. They are underrated these days.
Hey there, remember you from last time, I really hope this is the case, and I think he's a gentleman too, he does tiny things showing that
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Originally Posted by Harry Hemi
He doesnt see you. A second date, hes too busy, just like the last thread you posted, hes not that into you. YOu arent as interesting to him as he is to you. Give up now before you fall too far.
BTW why arent you moving on him instead of waiting for him to move on you? That will let you know if hes interested.
I don't understand what you mean by "he doesn't see me". He asked me out twice, I didn't plan to initiate the 3rd time, it just happened in that fleet second
Maybe it's just a bit early for him...some people wisely take it slow. You should be impressed, I think, it seems he's not a Cassanova but rather a good guy.
Physical touch is the most obvious sign that someone wants to have sex with you.
Consistent and caring communication is the most obvious sign someone is interested in you as a person.
He may be a gentleman. They are underrated these days.
I agree with this. It's just the beginning but it sounds promising. He might just be waiting for you to make a move, physically, and doesn't want to move too fast.
He sounds like me. I can laugh while reading about it from afar, but in the moment I'm blind too.
Next date or 4th, accidentally knock 'em in the head with one of the girls. Maybe ask him to pick up something and place yourself strategically as he's about to stand.
When on a date with someone new - I take my cues from the woman usually.
With the political climate right now - even if I really like the woman, I see how the woman is acting. If it is obvious, maybe I will give a kiss. Otherwise, I wait for her to make the first move - so, I can't be accused of anything not appropriate.
I agree with this. It's just the beginning but it sounds promising. He might just be waiting for you to make a move, physically, and doesn't want to move too fast.
Hopefully this's the case, i don't want to be put in the friendzone
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Originally Posted by MisterShipWreck
When on a date with someone new - I take my cues from the woman usually.
With the political climate right now - even if I really like the woman, I see how the woman is acting. If it is obvious, maybe I will give a kiss. Otherwise, I wait for her to make the first move - so, I can't be accused of anything not appropriate.
Can I ask what kind of sign is considered obvious? I want to let him know it's okay and I'm interested but at the same time, I don't want to come up too direct or eager
I don't understand what you mean by "he doesn't see me". He asked me out twice, I didn't plan to initiate the 3rd time, it just happened in that fleet second
You said before that you wonder how he sees you. He doesnt see you the way you want him to.
Why arent you moving on him instead of waiting for him to move on you? That will let you know if hes interested.
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