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Old 09-21-2018, 02:14 PM
 
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There are some that totally rattle to me to my core!

There's a coworker of mine that's strongly my type and every time she's in my presence I internally shriek with fear. It's f*cks me up and IDK why I do that. I can talk to other attractive women fine and have had sex with attractive women, but there's a few every now and then that do that to me.

Luckily I don't come off socially awkward. I can make her laugh a bit, small talk, be cool about it, but these types... I don't know what to do with.

Anyone else?!
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:17 PM
 
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Aww! Yeah, of course!
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:17 PM
 
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Yep. It's a great and horrible feeling at the same time.
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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What exactly is different about this woman then any other woman?
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:45 PM
 
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What exactly is different about this woman then any other woman?
No idea man...maybe because I'm crazy attracted to her or I don't wanna mess up. She isn't as really gregarious around me. She's almost stoic. Hard to read. So frustrating.
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She isn't as really gregarious around me. She's almost stoic. Hard to read. So frustrating.
Is there a chance she knows you feel this way about her but isn't into you so she's "being stoic" so as not to encourage you?
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:52 PM
 
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Haven't had that issue since I was younger.

Now its the other way around.
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:55 PM
 
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Is there a chance she knows you feel this way about her but isn't into you so she's "being stoic" so as not to encourage you?
She's like that in general based on how I've seen her behave. Rarely if ever engage in social events at work we have or very selective/limited.

She's just very professional which I respect because I can be unapproachable and stoic at work even if I'm cool with someone.
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Old 09-21-2018, 02:58 PM
 
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Sometimes, people make us all googley


Jason Mamoa makes me all googley.
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Old 09-21-2018, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She's just very professional which I respect because I can be unapproachable and stoic at work even if I'm cool with someone.
Just keep respecting it. You should be able to relax more around her knowing that nothing will ever happen between you.
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