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Had a not so pleasant exchange of texts with someone, that prevented us from both (mutually) wanting to have sex.
In the incident, the disagreement turned me off that I did not want to meet up- and conversely, what I said also turned him off.
(We have hooked up before- good sex previously, mutual attraction at that time) But from the disagreement, NO longer wanting to re-connect, and am sure it is mutual.
This is a casual situation- not talking about spouse, etc.
How Much Does Having A Disagreement with Someone (Casual) Affect Your Sexual Attraction to Them?
Depends. Are we disagreeing on something that is a matter of taste, like best flavor of ice cream, best genre of music, best theme park, or something more serious, like vaccinations cause autism, essential oils cures ALS, interracial dating/marriage should be banned like in the "olden days" -- my grandmother's days.
If that disagreement causes me to question their critical thinking skills or humanity, we ain't bumpin'. (when I was single, of course.)
Had a not so pleasant exchange of texts with someone, that prevented us from both (mutually) wanting to have sex.
In the incident, the disagreement turned me off that I did not want to meet up- and conversely, what I said also turned him off.
(We have hooked up before- good sex previously, mutual attraction at that time) But from the disagreement, NO longer wanting to re-connect, and am sure it is mutual.
This is a casual situation- not talking about spouse, etc.
So in a way- the Brain IS the driving sex organ?
What DID you both say that is so irreparable?? Your penis is too small? Your boobs sag?
Yeah, definitely. I remember there was this girl in a philosophy of art class, I thought she was cute, not hot, but she was definitely attractive. Then I found out she was a man-hating feminist who was also uber-liberal, and everything that came out of her mouth was absolutely idiotic in every respect. I lost all interest in her and just seeing her disgusted me because of her viewpoints on, literally, everything.
I've had it with girls I knew better, too, just like getting to know them over text or instant messenger, and realizing I don't really respect this person, and we don't have anything in common, so not really interested in seeing them even if it was just for sex. I wouldn't say it actually makes them any less attractive, objectively, I mean if I found out that Mila Kunis was a KKK member and slaughtered puppies on the weekends, it doesn't change the fact she's a perfect 10, but it would make her a disgusting individual and I certainly would want nothing to do with her whatsoever. But objectively, I'd still be able to recognize she's gorgeous.
So if we're talking about "attraction" as in "desire to do sexual things" then, sure, that could go down based on personality, but if we are talking about "attractiveness" as in "beauty" or "how good looking this person is" then no, it doesn't go down.
His wishy-washy passive-aggressive tendencies turned me off
But we did not say anything "hurtful" to each other, just that our personalities didn't click so that will prevent any chance of sex
Ahh, I get it. I had a FWB once, he was the most good looking guy you can imagine. Until he opened his mouth. I thought I can ignore it and just go there to bone. Didn't work. I lost complete attraction and desire.
It really depends on the nature of the disagreement.
Something like ketchup vs mustard really is not going to turn me off from a sexual relationship, but pro life vs pro choice will.
A disagreement on its own won’t make me “hate you” but a reveal of mismatched intention and belief will make me question if I should even be involved.
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