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Old 11-03-2018, 11:14 PM
 
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My LDR gf who is 17 told me that she can't do it anymore and that she's exhausted after a small argument. I asked her if she still wants to be friends or if she really doesn't wanna talk to me at all anymore but I got no answers and she completely ignores me. She did reply once after I insulted her out of frustration(I know it was immature but **** happens), so I know she is reading my messages. I just don't understand why she hasn't removed or blocked me on anything when all she's doing is ignoring me. My guess is that she is unsure about what to do or she feeds off my messages by reading them but ignoring them. I stopped attempting to talk to her few days ago but I don't know if I should block her or not. Any advice?
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Old 11-03-2018, 11:22 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You're on her back burner, kept there in case she gets bored.
Oh, the teen drama....
How old are you?
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Old 11-03-2018, 11:23 PM
 
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Let her go. You say it's a LDR, right? I'm speculating that either she found someone closer to home, or just doesn't want to do the distance thing anymore.

Sorry about this, but it happens. I've been there and it hurts!
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Old 11-03-2018, 11:24 PM
 
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You're on her back burner, kept there in case she gets bored.
Oh, the teen drama....
How old are you?
I'm 21. Please don't judge me for dating a teenager or something like that.
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Old 11-03-2018, 11:32 PM
 
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Let her go. You say it's a LDR, right? I'm speculating that either she found someone closer to home, or just doesn't want to do the distance thing anymore.

Sorry about this, but it happens. I've been there and it hurts!
And I assume she's not blocking me to use me as a back-up option?
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Old 11-03-2018, 11:36 PM
 
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Why do people block...only if someone’s harassing them, otherwise if they’re emotionally fragile I guess.
If she doesn’t answer to civil talk, keep it moving, show’s over.
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Old 11-03-2018, 11:55 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Move on! Shes just a kid and kids aren't mature enough to handle long distance relationships.
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Old 11-04-2018, 12:00 AM
 
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Move on! Shes just a kid and kids aren't mature enough to handle long distance relationships.
So should I block her on social media and everything?
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Old 11-04-2018, 12:03 AM
 
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So should I block her on social media and everything?
Again, what’s with the blocking, if you don’t care about her and want her to know, then don’t act like you CARE.
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Old 11-04-2018, 12:11 AM
 
Location: on the wind
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I'm 21. Please don't judge me for dating a teenager or something like that.
I suspect the reason for the age comment was to suggest that both of you sound very young.
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