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with the way you've put it in a way I've never thought of that before, it does now having me thinking... he himself has said she is incredibly manipulative and knows how to play the game, very well according to him.... now that you say she may just being saying nice things about me, not with genuine intent, but just to put herself in a good light so it's hard for me to hate her, I strongly believe that could be the case. I have spoken to her a couple times myself, and she has been nothing less that very friendly with me.... so quiet baffling at the least I guess...
It's baffling that people could behave that way, but at least you know you cannot trust her.
It's baffling that people could behave that way, but at least you know you cannot trust her.
Your BF needs to clue in, too.
so I just asked her why she had sent him a friend request after he removed her, and she stated that she was unaware he had removed her as a friend and thought he just created a new one... I am honestly not sure what to believe now...
does she actually innocently think he created a new one....
I am wondering why you continue to ponder? Kick him to the curb. You are still getting in too deep to their shenanigans without benefit. You are the third wheel. And you would seem to be content with sloppy seconds, because at this point, that is what you are getting.
It's time for the coke and popcorn. I gonna watch this one to conclusion.
He wouldn't be a 19 year old guy if he didn't think he could have lots of girls after him, but if you don't want that kind of relationship, don't have one.
so in speaking to him last night, he states that I have never actually given her a chance, tried to meet her, and if anything she's the victim in all of this. as he claims, she's only said things such as, "she's such a nice girlfriend ____, don't cheat on her" or "she's sooo nice, don't loose her" showing complete support for our relationship, and that I am always the one showing skepticism for her, stating that me wanting him to cut her off his toxic of me....
does he even have the slightest valid point?
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so in speaking to him last night, he states that I have never actually given her a chance, tried to meet her, and if anything she's the victim in all of this. as he claims, she's only said things such as, "she's such a nice girlfriend ____, don't cheat on her" or "she's sooo nice, don't loose her" showing complete support for our relationship, and that I am always the one showing skepticism for her, stating that me wanting him to cut her off his toxic of me....
does he even have the slightest valid point?
No he doesnt.
Just this line alone states he doesnt want to cut her off, so you need to cut him off. He isnt interested in making you feel comfortable about this ridiculous situation, so break it off already. It wont get better.
so in speaking to him last night, he states that I have never actually given her a chance, tried to meet her, and if anything she's the victim in all of this. as he claims, she's only said things such as, "she's such a nice girlfriend ____, don't cheat on her" or "she's sooo nice, don't loose her" showing complete support for our relationship, and that I am always the one showing skepticism for her, stating that me wanting him to cut her off his toxic of me....
does he even have the slightest valid point?
It makes a lot of sense to a guy that's being manipulative and putting his own needs or his friend-who-is-a-naked-girl's needs first.
A good boyfriend will put YOUR needs first. Go find one and stop analyzing these people, you already know everything you need to about this situation.
No he doesnt.
Just this line alone states he doesnt want to cut her off, so you need to cut him off. He isnt interested in making you feel comfortable about this ridiculous situation, so break it off already. It wont get better.
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Originally Posted by Debsi
It makes a lot of sense to a guy that's being manipulative and putting his own needs or his friend-who-is-a-naked-girl's needs first.
A good boyfriend will put YOUR needs first. Go find one and stop analyzing these people, you already know everything you need to about this situation.
Yep.
He is not loyal. He has some nerve, trying to turn this around on you.
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