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this isn't true... the male version would be saying with all the porn out in the world, how come all the women they meet aren't porn stars?
getting on tinder and playing the find the hot person game doesn't translate to anything, you still know nothing about the person, or even if the photos are real
if you can't "meet" women, you have other issues, women are literally half the population when you step outside
FYI, look up women makeup transformation on YouTube.., women have been playing the real life photoshop game before the Internet was made, they know how to pose for those "hot" photos.
I have a co worker who is 6'1, very handsome in the face, white guy with scruff and fantastic hair. I saw his bumble account and he had 100+ matches
Women on dating sites and dating applications are much worse than even the most shallow men I know. The difference is that all women get attention on dating sites, meanwhile the only men who really get matches and attention on dating sites are the top 0.1%ers
What's funny is my co worker is a complete moron and he doesn't close the deal with any of these women cause he is horrible on dates and is very awkward but he gets a million opportunities that I would kill to get.
And yes women are half the population, but how many of them are single, cute, into working out, no kids and between 23-30? 1%?
OP, you completely missed her point. She meant: VOLUNTEER. JOIN CIVIC GROUPS.
Maybe that's why you don't attract women: you have no hobbies, besides movies (that's like calling watching TV a hobby) and music, and working out. OP, you're BO-RINGGGGgggg. Cultivate yourself. Get some interesting things to talk about. Get a life outside of movies, music and your friends' parties. Use your money to travel. Study the cultures and history or archaeology of the places you travel to.
my 6'1 handsome co worker is borderline retarded and he gets tons of women interested in him in both online and real life. He doesn't close the deal with any of them because he's such an imbecile but they are very interested at first. I would have a girlfriend in 3 days if I get those opportunities that he gets.
so tell me again that women just care about history and archaelogy
on dating sites, looks/height are absolutely everything
I'm not some skinny short loser either. I'm 5'10, college educated, make six figures, work out 6 days a week. On photofeeler, my pics were rated as 70-76% attractive
It was not nearly enough, I got zero dates with anybody decent.
considering you think "decent" is mainly a physical attribute, why wouldn't you expect them to judge you by the same criteria? are you a hot male model yourself?
because everything else you write about yourself doesn't matter, you come across as a bad date, and you haven't even posted a photo yet
do you tell women you date, that you are only dating them because they are decent enough for your good looks?
So you aren't very cute and you have a terrible attitude. That is obvious by your posts here, and your dating results reflect it.
What was the question again?
I am good looking in real life but I look pretty mediocre in pics. My pictures were rated as 70-76% attractive on photofeeler. Women on dating sites want 99% attractive
What do you mean my attitude sucks? in regards to what?
don't you think it's incredibly disengenous to do something like volunteering only to meet a woman?
I didn't say sign up ONLY to meet women.
You said you had "no idea how to meet women," and I named places/activities where I KNOW couples have met. The main reason for going is to be a well-rounded person who is interesting and worth knowing. If you can't meet women, you need to get out into the world and interact. Those are ways to do that. If you get a date, that's a bonus.
considering you think "decent" is mainly a physical attribute, why wouldn't you expect them to judge you by the same criteria? are you a hot male model yourself?
because everything else you write about yourself doesn't matter, you come across as a bad date, and you haven't even posted a photo yet
do you tell women you date, that you are only dating them because they are decent enough for your good looks?
Decent means
Cute face
In shape/loves fitness
Mid to late 20s
No kids
Preferably college educated
Preferably decent job and doesn't have much debt
Well spoken/intelligent
Loyal
Family oriented/loves kids
Compatible lifestyle to mine
Doesn't smoke
affectionate
at least moderate sex drive
but 90% of that stuff you can't figure out until you go out with them and see what they are like so that's why I'm just saying decent looking, mid to late 20s, no kids...
and yes I have everything I asked for on the list.
don't you think it's incredibly disengenous to do something like volunteering only to meet a woman?
NO! IT ISN'T! Women do it to meet men, why shouldn't men (even YOU! ) do it to meet women? Of course, you should pick a volunteer activity that you're actually interested in, so that you'll enjoy it for its own sake.
Notice you you keep talking yourself out of doing the very things you NEED TO DO to meet women! You ask how to meet women, people tell you how, then you find excuses to dismiss their suggestions. This is YOUR issue; no one else has an issue with talking to women at the gym (if it's a friendly, sociable gym. Not all of them are), or with volunteering to meet people and support a worthy cause. It's just you and your anxiety. Deal with the anxiety!
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) do it to meet women? Of course, you should pick a volunteer activity that you're actually interested in, so that you'll enjoy it for its own sake. 