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Old 01-17-2019, 10:00 AM
 
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My wife and I rent out some property on our farm and recently my wife received a letter from a guy who used to stay on one of our cottages that we have on our farm a few years ago. It basically asked her how things were at our farm and how she was. He also gave my wife an e mail address and a recent pic of himself.

Sorting through my wife's e mail account I discovered that she had e mailed him back giving a bit of info on what had changed on our farm. She had also said "Good to see you!" when she had seen his picture, and she had finished the e mail with "do hope to hear from you again soon"

Is this a warning that my wife is possibly considering cheating? The guy was hardly a close friend of ours, so I find it hard to see why he would be interested in mailing my wife unless it was some type of advance. If it was an innocent e mail exchange why did she seem to express pleasure at seeing his pic? Should I talk to her about it, or let is pass? She would not be pleased if she knew I had bee looking at her e mails.
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:10 AM
 
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"Good to see you" is what you say to people when you meet them again, even electronically. You don't even have to mean it. Chill out.
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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She was just being polite. I word personal emails in a similar fashion. Saying its good to see you is just a nice way to acknowledge the picture, the email wasn't business so why does she need to be cold when someone reached out in a friendly manner.
The real issue is...why are you going through your wife's email? You need to deal with your insecurities before it ruins your marriage.
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:34 AM
 
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"Good to see you" is what you say to people when you meet them again, even electronically. You don't even have to mean it. Chill out.
Oh come on, why is he sending a pic of himself if he wasn't trying to impress her?
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Oh come on, why is he sending a pic of himself if he wasn't trying to impress her?
So what if he is trying to impress her. She was nothing but polite back. It's not your wifes fault if men show her interest.
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You're really grasping at straws here. Do you have a reason to not trust your wife?
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Rural Wisconsin
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Yes, you are being VERY insecure. If your wife was interested in the guy, she would have been MUCH more "friendly".

As others have said, "Chill out."
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Old 01-17-2019, 10:44 AM
 
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Lol what a load of sugar coated crap "advice" forums can be.
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Old 01-17-2019, 11:00 AM
 
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You should just confirm with your wife and ask her if she's cheating on you with this guy
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Old 01-17-2019, 11:02 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You should just confirm with your wife and ask her if she's cheating on you with this guy

What could possibly go wrong?
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