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My wife and I rent out some property on our farm and recently my wife received a letter from a guy who used to stay on one of our cottages that we have on our farm a few years ago. It basically asked her how things were at our farm and how she was. He also gave my wife an e mail address and a recent pic of himself.
Sorting through my wife's e mail account I discovered that she had e mailed him back giving a bit of info on what had changed on our farm. She had also said "Good to see you!" when she had seen his picture, and she had finished the e mail with "do hope to hear from you again soon"
Is this a warning that my wife is possibly considering cheating? The guy was hardly a close friend of ours, so I find it hard to see why he would be interested in mailing my wife unless it was some type of advance. If it was an innocent e mail exchange why did she seem to express pleasure at seeing his pic? Should I talk to her about it, or let is pass? She would not be pleased if she knew I had bee looking at her e mails.
She was just being polite. I word personal emails in a similar fashion. Saying its good to see you is just a nice way to acknowledge the picture, the email wasn't business so why does she need to be cold when someone reached out in a friendly manner.
The real issue is...why are you going through your wife's email? You need to deal with your insecurities before it ruins your marriage.
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You should just confirm with your wife and ask her if she's cheating on you with this guy
What could possibly go wrong?
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