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Is this the guy you spotted at a museum with his wife?
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Originally Posted by krosser100
Yes but it was speculation at the time, now he confirmed
Lol. Wait so you already knew he was married w kids?
Anyway, your choices are clear that you could care less about the people anyway so not sure why you post about it...you'll sleep with anyone by your own admission.
The poor woman...sleeping with her husband and basically you...shudder.
Lesson is if you want to secure a marriage, you need to have sex with that person very regularly or THEY WILL SEEK IT ELSEWHERE
I actually respect you for the fact that you think it's wrong to continue this, but I don't agree that that's the lesson here. That's a way over-simplification of why this man was doing what he was doing.
Lol. Wait so you already knew he was married w kids?
Anyway, your choices are clear that you could care less about the people anyway so not sure why you post about it...you'll sleep with anyone by your own admission.
The poor woman...sleeping with her husband and basically you...shudder.
Lol. Wait so you already knew he was married w kids?
Anyway, your choices are clear that you could care less about the people anyway so not sure why you post about it...you'll sleep with anyone by your own admission.
The poor woman...sleeping with her husband and basically you...shudder.
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Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar
And probably a bunch of other men too.
Ugh.....
This is just gross. I don't have any problem with people consenting to casual sex as long as they are protected. But in this case, it's a dirty secret, nothing about this is ethical in any way. This kind of stuff can make a person paranoid about trusting people.....
For half a year, I'd been hooking up with a guy mid 30s, just sex, but it was very good sex.
I never really asked details about his life, he said he lived in a neighboring city but his supposedly work is 20 min from my place.
The last encounter as he was about to leave I asked if he lived alone. He said no. "Room-mate?"
His face turned red and said softly he's attached.
"Man or woman" I ask (I'm gay).
"Woman"
"Any kids" I ask
"2". Then he admitted she never does anything sexually. He even said the last time they had sex was 2 months ago.
Quickly dropped the convo and he left, and my awareness of his story now changes any dynamic we had.
It will be just wrong to ever hook up with him again.
I actually kinda felt bad for him, that she never wanted to have sex. Plus she is likely unaware of his bisexuality.
Lesson is if you want to secure a marriage, you need to have sex with that person very regularly or THEY WILL SEEK IT ELSEWHERE
I myself felt grossed out after the convo
my god are you serious? do you know how much danger you could've been in? please get tested for std's and get into a good church, or therapy at the very least. You ARE worth it! THAT is the LESSON, not your chastising other wives for your mis-givings. You need to worry about YOUR dangerous and bad behavior, not justify it. That's a pass to repeat it and never learn
He would message out of nowhere throughout the weeks always saying things like he is horny etc, he is "backed up" etc etc
After last encounter, he said "it has been a long time" (meaning sex)
That's when I asked if he lived alone, I was wondering why he always made himself out to be some sex-less victim (unlikely as he is good looking and charming demeanor)
my god are you serious? do you know how much danger you could've been in? please get tested for std's and get into a good church, or therapy at the very least. You ARE worth it! THAT is the LESSON, not your chasing other wives for your mis-givings. You need to worry about YOUR dangerous and bad behavior, not justify it. That's a pass to repeat it and never learn
His behavior might be unethical, but what exactly is dangerous?
For half a year, I'd been hooking up with a guy mid 30s, just sex, but it was very good sex.
I never really asked details about his life, he said he lived in a neighboring city but his supposedly work is 20 min from my place.....
Look, you were getting what has long been known as "a piece of ass," "a lay," "a screw"....etc. No problem on that score.
Now it is out in the open that he is married and has kids. And now you think your relationship is terrible and you should terminate it.
So, do it, and cut the drama. And make your inquiries a bit earlier in your next hookup, if it really matters to you.
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