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Sitting at home just freaking tragicaly feeling sorry for myself. Pathetic.
I am 27 years old guy, never had a truly serious long term relationship. Friends/family mocking me for this as well.
I got so extremely heartbroken at 17 by a girl who rejected me that I had problems getting ovet this. Had msny short term flings till I was 26. Then I met what I though was the perfect woman, things went great for 3 months, then straight to hell. I deleted all her contactinfo. (3 months ago) I have been going a bit rouge after this with lots of partying etc but we accidentally met up 3 weeks ago at a newyearsparty. She said she was now seeing some guy, but somehow she was added on my snapchat again.
I started seing this new girl who I really did not care too much for but anyway she blew me off on yesterday as well
I am sitting alone on this saturday just feeling deflated and to top it off this previous girl(froø.tjree months ago) just posted a mystory of herself making out with her new guy.
I just realised that love is not for me. I just dont ****ing understand why I keep screwing things up.
I guess I should just give up and go live in a cave somewhere. I am so extremely tired of getting my heart broken every single time. Soon there is no more heart to break.
Could be.
Still I have been more mature than most friends at my age all my life.
This is maybe more a frustrated thread. Its not f-ing easy to feel rejected and abandomed all your life.
True, no one likes rejection. What you wrote sounds as though you get emotionally invested early. As in, way too early.
Will you please clarify, the girl who broke your heart when you were 17 by rejecting you, what does that mean, specifically? Did she reject a first date?
True, no one likes rejection. What you wrote sounds as though you get emotionally invested early. As in, way too early.
Will you please clarify, the girl who broke your heart when you were 17 by rejecting you, what does that mean, specifically? Did she reject a first date?
Yeah I know.. I try not to get emotionally invested. And with this last girl I had a "take it or leave it" attitide in my head. But leading up to our next date ( which was supposed to be yesterday) she blew me off with a BS excuse and not heard from her since. And as well seeing these pics tonight of the girl before her made my guts turn inside out.
But no this girl when I was 17, we was hookin up for maybe 4 months. I thought ofc at 17 that this was the girl of my dreams cause no-one had ever given me this kinda attention before and I got extremely invested in her. ( I can see now all the needy, stupid, beta behaviour I was doing ofc)
She was dating multiple guys and she chose some.other guy over me and when she broke me I actually feel I never healed properly.
What ****in hurts me is that this girl who snapchated herself with her probably new boyfriend was always saying she was not ready for relationship etc when we were dating (even though I never talked about this) and I constantly said its better that we just take a day at the time.
I now kinda feel that I was just a rebound cause she was 4 months out of a relationship with this emotionally abusive guy.. and now suddenly shes head over heels with this guy ( who I actually know from prev. Workrelations)
But this just make me feel even worse that I am not.good enough or not attractive enough..
It is also not normal to be still be broken hearted over what happened when you were 17. Maybe you should book an appointment with a psychologist.
You didn't care much for the last girl you were dating. Maybe it was more obvious than you thought and she figured she didn't want to waste her time. As you didn't care about her one way or another you didn't lose a thing. Don't whine about that one.
At your age a lot of partying is not an attractive quality. Men that focus on their jobs are more attractive. Unless you want a party girl, in which case they will be here today and gone tomorrow.
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