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She is keeping her options open. If she is with you , the proper response would have been , "I have a boyfriend now" rather than an invitation to call later when he dialed her by mistake. Or at least an "ok" to his apology for the butt dail. An invitation is suspucious.
No trust, then it's a sham of a relationship. Gotta tell ya--it's hard to believe that men or women put up with the disrespectful behaviors that your GF is foisting on you. But, then again, some people will maltreat you is you allow them to. Don't allow it.
Why would you ever need a GF like that in your life? Are you better off with her or without her in your life?
I couldn't even finish reading your post because what you did was so violating. It's very wrong to do what you did. I could be madly in love with all my heart and if a guy spied on me like this, it'd be over. No second chances.
You should be ashamed. Please steer clear of relationships until you meet someone you trust enough to respect their privacy.
No trust, then it's a sham of a relationship. Gotta tell ya--it's hard to believe that men or women put up with the disrespectful behaviors that your GF is foisting on you. But, then again, some people will maltreat you is you allow them to. Don't allow it.
Why would you ever need a GF like that in your life? Are you better off with her or without her in your life?
I'd walk.
Not a relationship.
Not a girlfriend.
A casual FB situation.
OP has misunderstood, which makes his violation of her privacy even more unacceptable.
Privacy aside she sounds slutty and appears to be a major attention seeker and party gal. She will always be looking to hook up with someone. You will never know who’s tearing up her a$$ when you’re away working. Time to move on and she’ll be ballistic if she finds out you read her texts.
I'll never understand why someone stays in a relationship that has problems during the "honeymoon phase". If you're having issues early on it's because you aren't right for each other so cut your losses BEFORE you get to the snooping through the phone stage.
Do you feel better now that you know what was in her phone?
Is this the kind of stuff you want to deal with?
Do you trust this woman?
Answer those questions and you should be able to come to a logical conclusion.
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