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Old 04-25-2019, 09:29 AM
 
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Yes
I have no idea how to thank him and not sound too casual or too eager
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Old 04-25-2019, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You shrugged. There was mumbling. Too much awkwardness and misunderstanding.

Send a thank-you text and be specific with your words.

"I enjoyed getting to know you last night. I hope to spend some more time with you soon."

Something like that.
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Old 04-25-2019, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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Could be just nervous. I was nervous with my wife when we were dating. One date we were walking on the beach alone. Later after we got married we talked about past dates and that one came up. She said in her head she was screaming will you kiss me. I think I was rambling on about some of the Navy ships in the bay.

Btw yes we did kiss.
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Old 04-25-2019, 09:51 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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What do you suggest? Should I text him and thank for the date, beer, good time?
Absolutely. Thanking a man for a good date is good manners. He'll appreciate it. Also, say something like you're looking forward to the next date. He may not have heard you say yes to the kiss, or your body language was inconsistent.

Edit: Actually what Birdie said to say is perfect.
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Old 04-25-2019, 09:53 AM
 
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Absolutely. Thanking a man for a good date is good manners. He'll appreciate it. Also, say something like you're looking forward to the next date. He may not have heard you say yes to the kiss, or your body language was inconsistent.
I sent him thanks for last night, i had fun getting to know you.

That is all, he is pretty quick with replies. Now I wait. I am so scared of rejection, a nervous wreck right now
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Old 04-25-2019, 09:59 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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I sent him thanks for last night, i had fun getting to know you.

That is all, he is pretty quick with replies. Now I wait. I am so scared of rejection, a nervous wreck right now
OK, that indicates at least a little interest without being too vulnerable. I totally understand the fear of rejection. Imagine being a guy!
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Old 04-25-2019, 10:01 AM
 
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OK, that indicates at least a little interest without being too vulnerable. I totally understand the fear of rejection. Imagine being a guy!
Yeah, I am sure he saw the text by now but nothing yet. What if he never replies? Or is he thinking of a nice reply.....
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Old 04-25-2019, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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Yeah, I am sure he saw the text by now but nothing yet. What if he never replies? Or is he thinking of a nice reply.....
He might be busy. Maybe he doesn't want to seem too eager by replying too fast. He could also be thinking about a way to ask you out again and where to go on the next date. The weekend is almost here, so if it were me, I'd be thinking about that.
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Old 04-25-2019, 10:05 AM
 
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He might be busy. Maybe he doesn't want to seem too eager by replying too fast. He could also be thinking about a way to ask you out again and where to go on the next date. The weekend is almost here, so if it were me, I'd be thinking about that.
I work every other weekend and he knows i do work this coming one.
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Old 04-25-2019, 10:07 AM
 
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Yeah I had fun too, thanks
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