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Old 07-06-2019, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Decatur, GA
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Ok there's a female that I have had conversated with in late 2014 she's really cool, very pretty, the conversation wasn't long back then. But I didn't hit her up much back then until recently about a week ago only because I focused on a two other women at the time (separately) not at the same time (No relationship with either). Our conversations have been really good lately I'm definitely interested in her & she appreciates when I hit her up. I haven't hit her since Thursday only because I don't want to come off needy/clingy, I might hit her up tomorrow. I'm (30M) I think she's (37 or 38F) more likely (38F) I didn't ask, I just did the math from her graduation year. She definitely responds to my messages and everything is good. We do live in different states though. & She's Single.

My question is how do I get her more interested in me without being needy/clingy? She asks me questions too in our conversations so she may have interest.
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Old 07-06-2019, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Ok there's a female that I have had conversated with in late 2014 she's really cool, very pretty, the conversation wasn't long back then. But I didn't hit her up much back then until recently about a week ago only because I focused on a two other women at the time (separately) not at the same time (No relationship with either). Our conversations have been really good lately I'm definitely interested in her & she appreciates when I hit her up. I haven't hit her since Thursday only because I don't want to come off needy/clingy, I might hit her up tomorrow. I'm (30M) I think she's (37 or 38F) more likely (38F) I didn't ask, I just did the math from her graduation year. She definitely responds to my messages and everything is good. We do live in different states though. & She's Single.

My question is how do I get her more interested in me without being needy/clingy? She asks me questions too in our conversations so she may have interest.
A female what?

j/k

Ask her out.

>>>ETA WaiT... WHY ARE YOU texting a girl in another state again?????
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Old 07-06-2019, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Do you have the means to visit her? If so hint at that in the future. Make plans. It looks like you are organized and interested.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Decatur, GA
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Do you have the means to visit her? If so hint at that in the future. Make plans. It looks like you are organized and interested.
I do but I won’t bring it up to her until the conversations have built up more.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I do but I won’t bring it up to her until the conversations have built up more.
smh
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I do but I won’t bring it up to her until the conversations have built up more.
If she responds back and ask a lot of detail questions she's interested. Build of your conversations but only in person experiences build up relationships.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Decatur, GA
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A female what?

j/k

Ask her out.

>>>ETA WaiT... WHY ARE YOU texting a girl in another state again?????
I know, she’s from Arizona as well.

If all things go well she would be the 3rd Arizona woman that I would have been talking to or focused on. hopefully a 3rd time is a charm. I can’t help it I really like Arizona women.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I know, she’s from Arizona as well.

If all things go well she would be the 3rd Arizona woman that I would have been talking to or focused on. hopefully a 3rd time is a charm. I can’t help it I really like Arizona women.
I KNOW there are "females" in Atlanta.

You're just making things more difficult for yourself.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:11 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I KNOW there are "females" in Atlanta.

You're just making things more difficult for yourself.
Sounds like a commitment phobia.
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Old 07-06-2019, 10:12 PM
 
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So she's your third choice from five years ago?
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