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You'll have to decide if your emotional investment in this guy is low enough that you are getting back what you put into it.
Not sure if you saw it, but she already replied saying that she was just curious and that she was playing the field as well. So it seems she got her answer, he's not that interested.
If I were you, I would remain cordial, but become a lot less available. Make him work a lot harder for you. If he makes more of an effort you'll have your answer.
I fear as soon as he has sex with you, you'll lose your appeal, so watch out.