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Not saying never, of course it would always depend on the individual and the circumstances, however my experience of men has been that they often hide things. I'm not saying that they're all that way, or even that it's bad to keep things to yourself, but it has been a reoccuring theme in my relationships with men thus far and I really don't enjoy finding out what it is they've been hiding. There is no way I want to wake up to discover that I'm just not doing it for him anymore and it's because he's head over heels for the guy next door. Relationships are complicated enough, and being attracted to both sexes is fine as far as I'm concerned but I am not so it stands to reason that a bi sexual man would be much better off with a bi sexual woman, or someone other than me.
And, again, if a man has had sexual experiences with a three hundred pound woman, who's to say he wouldn't be head over heels for that large lady down the block!
Hate to break it to you but, just because someone ie monogonous does not mean that they wouldn't find someone else sexually appealing. All being faithful means is that they don't ACT ON IT!. Aslo, I hate to say it but, if you do not have three-hundred pounds of flap, than you would "just not be doing it" for a chubby chaser. But, you would be okay with going out with a man who was into big girls?
What you are posting is a contradiction! You stated that dating asian women before marrying a white woman would be the same as expirementing with a male? That is innacurate for the simple fact that the asian girl is part of the same gender as the white woman. You are comparing apples to oranges.
As you may have seen on some of my previous posts I have nothing against homosexuality but as far as being a woman being in a relationship with a man whom has a past of homosexual relationships? Absolutely not.
You stated that a peck on the cheek as a dare? Well if they were straight they would not do it as a dare. I believe that any individual whom has "thoughts of being with the opposite sex should not become involved in a serious relationship until they realize what it is they really want." Why? It is a waste of time for both parties and it causes alot of unecassary pain.
So now what?
"You stated that a peck on the cheek as a dare? Well if they were straight they would not do it as a dare." So all those men in Europe who kiss eachother on the cheek are gay? Wow! who'd a thunk it
Anyhow, as for "thoughts" of being with another member of the same sex...who cares? As long as they are just thoughts, what's the big deal? If he can think that you are good enough to be with inspite of other woman being out there, than who cares if there are other man out there too? If he is faithful, he's faithful, regardless of who he thinks is hot...hate to break it to you but, allot of straight men also cheat, believe it or not.
And, again, if a man has had sexual experiences with a three hundred pound woman, who's to say he wouldn't be head over heels for that large lady down the block!
Hate to break it to you but, just because someone ie monogonous does not mean that they wouldn't find someone else sexually appealing. All being faithful means is that they don't ACT ON IT!. Aslo, I hate to say it but, if you do not have three-hundred pounds of flap, than you would "just not be doing it" for a chubby chaser. But, you would be okay with going out with a man who was into big girls?
Again you are doing it! Stop it mortal! A large morbidly obese woman is still part of the female species.
One thing I do agree with is that there are never any guarantees! However a woman most women can deal with and overcome but your man leaving you for another man? Ouch huge ego bash! So my question to you is,
WHY IS IT OKAY?
"You stated that a peck on the cheek as a dare? Well if they were straight they would not do it as a dare." So all those men in Europe who kiss eachother on the cheek are gay? Wow! who'd a thunk it
Anyhow, as for "thoughts" of being with another member of the same sex...who cares? As long as they are just thoughts, what's the big deal? If he can think that you are good enough to be with inspite of other woman being out there, than who cares if there are other man out there too? If he is faithful, he's faithful, regardless of who he thinks is hot...hate to break it to you but, allot of straight men also cheat, believe it or not.
Stop baiting! We are not in Europe and this is not a customary hello (which I am well aware of) you fail! This remark was twice removed at best!
Fantasies are someones business as you stated we all have them but if one finds themselves having these thoughts so vital that they affect their sexual performance? Than I thnk it is a personal issue and someone is fooling themselves.Having random thoughts of chicks they would love to bang? As a male is normal, but having reoccuring thoughts of males they would like to bang? And they are with a chick? They might want to revaluate their sexuality...why is this so hard for you to grasp?
Again you are doing it! Stop it mortal! A large morbidly obese woman is still part of the female species.
One thing I do agree with is that there are never any guarantees! However a woman most women can deal with and overcome but your man leaving you for another man? Ouch huge ego bash! So my question to you is,
WHY IS IT OKAY?
They both might be female, but someone who is into that PROBABLY wouldn't be able to get the same thing out of being with a size-sixer. Chubby-chaser is, for all intends and purposes, another sexual prefence all together, as most heterosexual men would never dream of having anything to do with a woman like that.
Ohh, and your man leaving you for a woman who has a back of a neck that looks like a pack of hot dogs? Are you SERIOUSLY going to tell me that wouldn't be a huge (no pun intended, huge) blow to your ego?
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Stop baiting! We are not in Europe and this is not a customary hello (which I am well aware of) you fail! This remark was twice removed at best!
Fantasies are someones business as you stated we all have them but if one finds themselves having these thoughts so vital that they affect their sexual performance? Than I thnk it is a personal issue and someone is fooling themselves.Having random thoughts of chicks they would love to bang? As a male is normal, but having reoccuring thoughts of males they would like to bang? And they are with a chick? They might want to revaluate their sexuality...why is this so hard for you to grasp?
And having reoccuring thoughts of chunk-monkies they want to bang, when they are with a size six woman?...I really do not see a difference.
And, again, if a man has had sexual experiences with a three hundred pound woman, who's to say he wouldn't be head over heels for that large lady down the block!
Hate to break it to you but, just because someone ie monogonous does not mean that they wouldn't find someone else sexually appealing. All being faithful means is that they don't ACT ON IT!. Aslo, I hate to say it but, if you do not have three-hundred pounds of flap, than you would "just not be doing it" for a chubby chaser. But, you would be okay with going out with a man who was into big girls?
First up you can drop the sarcastic rolleyes, you asked the question and I gave my answer. I also believe I said never say never. So you're ahead anyway.
Secondly have you ever been cheated on? Because I have, repeatedly and it never gets any easier. You've completely skipped over my answer in your efforts to attack, which I find a bit sad really.
What a person has done in their past generally does not affect me in the now with them, however, I do not want to become emotionally involved with some one who is not absolutely sure that they want to be emotionally involved with me a woman, THAT applies to ANYONE. I'd say seeing as I don't have the required parts to appeal to half of a bi mans attractions, a guy that is also attracted to men is sooner or later going to want to be with a man again. Why would I put myself in that position, given than human beings often struggle to maintain fidelity in a lot of cases? It just adds to the number of options for attraction doesn't it? I'm never going to be a man, can't ever be a man but supposing I loved someone enough I could become a 300 pound woman if that's what appealed to them. And before you go off again by definition someone that is bisexual is attracted to both sexes and I can only be one sex, so you do the math.
They both might be female, but someone who is into that PROBABLY wouldn't be able to get the same thing out of being with a size-sixer. Chubby-chaser is, for all intends and purposes, another sexual prefence all together, as most heterosexual men would never dream of having anything to do with a woman like that.
Ohh, and your man leaving you for a woman who has a back of a neck that looks like a pack of hot dogs? Are you SERIOUSLY going to tell me that wouldn't be a huge (no pun intended, huge) blow to your ego?
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And having reoccuring thoughts of chunk-monkies they want to bang, when they are with a size six woman?...I really do not see a difference.
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First up you can drop the sarcastic rolleyes, you asked the question and I gave my answer. I also believe I said never say never. So you're ahead anyway.
Secondly have you ever been cheated on? Because I have, repeatedly and it never gets any easier. You've completely skipped over my answer in your efforts to attack, which I find a bit sad really.
What a person has done in their past generally does not affect me in the now with them, however, I do not want to become emotionally involved with some one who is not absolutely sure that they want to be emotionally involved with me a woman, THAT applies to ANYONE. I'd say seeing as I don't have the required parts to appeal to half of a bi mans attractions, a guy that is also attracted to men is sooner or later going to want to be with a man again. Why would I put myself in that position, given than human beings often struggle to maintain fidelity in a lot of cases? It just adds to the number of options for attraction doesn't it? I'm never going to be a man, can't ever be a man but supposing I loved someone enough I could become a 300 pound woman if that's what appealed to them. And before you go off again by definition someone that is bisexual is attracted to both sexes and I can only be one sex, so you do the math.
I do not need to do the math....and the woman posted again is a woman despite her size, it still carries the same repro organs. I am sorry but to put it bluntly? You can argue your point till you are blue in the face but the outvome will be the same, you either want the monkey or the rod. You cannot have your cake and stuff it too.
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We didn't make much progress on your "Pathetic Man" thread, VC, but I think we are on the verge of a breakthrough here.
Close your eyes and imagine a guy across the room that looks just like you but cuter and sexier.
He blows you a kiss and you reach up for it.
Did you catch it or did you miss it?
How do you feel about that?
lmmfao! FF you really need to warn folks when you post I spit out my water in laughter.
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So all those men in Europe who kiss eachother on the cheek are gay? Wow! who'd a thunk it