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Me, too... That's why I've been debating whether to waste my time on the subject or not... I don't believe he really wants to hear about the other side of the story.
if you have something to add that makes sense, then go ahead and give it to me. you may be right, you may be wrong. i'll be honest at least.
so, if you really think you have the other side of the arguement nailed down. if you can articulate that which my wife was unable to articulate, then please, give it to me straight.
Me, too... That's why I've been debating whether to waste my time on the subject or not... I don't believe he really wants to hear about the other side of the story.
if you have something to add that makes sense, then go ahead and give it to me. you may be right, you may be wrong. i'll be honest at least.
so, if you really think you have the other side of the arguement nailed down. if you can articulate that which my wife was unable to articulate, then please, give it to me straight.
Seriously, what drew you two together in the first place?
let me put it this way - she keeps the house presentable, but i get annoyed when little things are not in order. when things are unorganized, which is a constant state of affairs, i dont go and beat her in the corner with my strap, like some people seem to think. but, i might say something like, "does every drawer in the kitchen have to be a ****ing junk drawer!?"
sorry, i dont know if i can answer your second question. but it wasnt always like this. and it's not like we're constantly fighting. it's just that when we do fight, it is triggered by something ridiculous and trivial, so that there tells me that what triggers the conflict is not what the conflict is about. for my part, i would say that over time, my patience has worn a little thin.
let me put it this way - she keeps the house presentable, but i get annoyed when little things are not in order. when things are unorganized, which is a constant state of affairs, i dont go and beat her in the corner with my strap, like some people seem to think. but, i might say something like, "does every drawer in the kitchen have to be a ****ing junk drawer!?"
....Why not ask her if you two could pick a night and organize the drawers??
....Why not ask her if you two could pick a night and organize the drawers??
yeah, maybe. seems a little therapudic. i've done it myself on more than one occasion. is it really too much of me to ask of her, who is home all day, to take care of it - since it's her junk anyway. and moreover, to kick her habbit of filling the drawers with so much junk - or to keep it limited to just one junk drawer.
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