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I wasn't talking about your posts in that but I'm sure it's a true statement.
Somehow I don't get that from the OP. This cheater guy has been in therapy for a similar issue.
Doesn't sound like it's a couple's problem. If he was trying to say it was her fault, you would think that they would have been in couple's therapy...
just a thought
Oh, gotcha. Yeah, I see what you're saying. But men and women can't go out and cheat on their respective spouses just because they're looking for a cheap thrill. They can't admit to that. Instead, they have to build a case against the spouse to give them permission to do it. As in not being fulfilled, the sex being stale, she/he doesn't pay enough attention to me. It's so predictable, there oughta be a script.
Oh, gotcha. Yeah, I see what you're saying. But men and women can't go out and cheat on their respective spouses just because they're looking for a cheap thrill. They can't admit to that. Instead, they have to build a case against the spouse to give them permission to do it. As in not being fulfilled, the sex being stale, she/he doesn't pay enough attention to me.
It's so predictable, there oughta be a script.
I recently found out that my husband joined a sort of dating service called Ashley Madison. For those of you who don't know, it is advertised quite a bit on Howard Stern's show, it's a dating site for people who are in committed relationships or married. Yuck, I know. The line I was given from him was that he was just curious about what type of people are on there? Apparently you have to fill out this whole bio on yourself, yada yada, he was looking for something short term? He said that you had to fill in that part to look around. He also said that he hears it all day long as he listens to Howard Stern and was just curious, again.
Last year I almost left him for soing something similar to this, he also said that nothing has ever happened-never cheated. He also went to therapy for a year for the last time.
I could really use some unbiased opinions on this matter. It is entirely to embarrassing to talk to my friends or family about. What would you do? Please advise.
Your hubby is cheating on you...and apparently has for a long time.
He is NOT going to change.
Decide whether you are ok with it or not and then either live with it or divorce him. What is so hard about this?
right, those are the same cliches that are soo old now. If you can't communicate things that may be lacking or have issues with then it's too bad. I realize some people can't or won't communicate, that's when counseling needs to step in rather than run for the nearest single's bar.
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Originally Posted by cpg35223
Oh, gotcha. Yeah, I see what you're saying. But men and women can't go out and cheat on their respective spouses just because they're looking for a cheap thrill. They can't admit to that. Instead, they have to build a case against the spouse to give them permission to do it. As in not being fulfilled, the sex being stale, she/he doesn't pay enough attention to me. It's so predictable, there oughta be a script.
You guys are way too tuff on this guy ! they have a kid for one , and two, he said he never cheated.I can tell that some here are either very young or not married with kids !! yea ..go wreck your childrens life and be forced to sell your house and uproot your family, break your vows.,work 2 jobs....because your husband went on a Web site promoted by Stern!!
Even Ashly Madison has standards. This made me laugh a week ago when I read it.
Sarah Symonds was sacked from her job working for an infidelity website, it has been alleged.
Symonds, who claimed she had a seven-year affair with TV chef Gordon Ramsay was an infidelity spokesperson for the Ashley Madison Agency.
The dating website specialises in hooking married people up behind their partner's backs.
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