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Old 05-24-2009, 12:49 PM
 
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I once had a relationship with a guy who was fairly overweight; I wouldn't exactly say "ugly".
He might've been attractive if he hadn't been so chubby.
He had a great personality, though, and we had a lot of fun times together.
In the end, though, the chemistry just wasn't there. I'm not sure if that was because of his physical appearance or for some other reason. I'd like to think I'm not shallow enough to fall for guys only because of their appearance.
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Old 05-24-2009, 12:50 PM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Old 05-24-2009, 01:34 PM
 
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I dated a guy who could be considered really quite unattractive (people teased him). Here's how he handled it. He considered me out of his league then this logic kicked in - if he got me he could do even better. Then he starts treating me like crap, trying to taunt me into admitting I must be pity-dating him, then he tries to get the model type he'd been lusting over. Bad move- back to square one, he made an idiot of himself in front of all, and people ended up hating him as well as being repulsed by his looks.
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Old 05-24-2009, 01:37 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i dont date them, i marry them.
coda no more.
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Old 05-24-2009, 02:03 PM
 
Location: southern california
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I dated a guy who could be considered really quite unattractive (people teased him). Here's how he handled it. He considered me out of his league then this logic kicked in - if he got me he could do even better. Then he starts treating me like crap, trying to taunt me into admitting I must be pity-dating him, then he tries to get the model type he'd been lusting over. Bad move- back to square one, he made an idiot of himself in front of all, and people ended up hating him as well as being repulsed by his looks.
living proof dating beautiful women will make you crazy as a loon.
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Old 05-24-2009, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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As America gets more overweight and the lower class continues to grow, I have noticed that there are more and more ugly looking people walking the streets. I point them out to my wife all the time and some of these people are just plain gross looking. (I am not being to harsh).

I know a few real ugly people myself and they are single and dating over the Internet. I always wanted to be a fly on the wall when they meet their blind date who has only seen a 15 year old doctored picture.

Some of the physically ugly people I know have wonderful personalities so can make up the difference. Others are still looking for love and are ugly physically and personally.

What do you think about dating physically ugly people? (It could be that they let themselves go or just were given bad genes, regardless they are ugly)
LMAO at this post....You're an idiot and so is your wife for co-signing you.
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Old 05-24-2009, 04:55 PM
 
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I dated a fat guy once, because he seemed to have a nice personality. I came to realize that all the fat was hiding was an insecure, manipulative, self-centered jerk. I think physical baggage is often a sign that there's emotional baggage there too. He'd point out my physical flaws to make himself feel better. But I ended up just kicking him to the curb, because heck if I was going to deal with that crap.
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Old 05-24-2009, 07:35 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I have no use for a ugly women
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Old 05-24-2009, 08:58 PM
 
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I have never dated an ugly guy. However I have a weird sense of what is attractive. To me none of them were ugly and noone ever said they were but eh, who knows. I agree with the OP that ppl usually date on their own level, usually. ie; 10's with 10's, 7 with 7, 2 with 2 and so on.
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Old 05-27-2009, 11:43 AM
 
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I so don't like people who decide who looks good and who doesnt. But either way you slice it, there are people who fit your description of "ugly" who are both married, single, dating in real life and dating on the internet, not dating at all, married and cheating etc etc.
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