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The person who leads. There are lots of trusting, decent people out there. Screw the player - they usually cause the hurt. I don't quite get the question - but answered to what I thought you asked.
the person who leads someone on or the player that gets lead on?
any corrective action anyone can do?
If you're leading someone on because you think he's a player, I would say that makes you worse. Leading someone on is always wrong. Whether the other person is a player doesn't make it less wrong. That's like cheating on someone because they cheated on you. The fact that they cheated first doesn't mitigate you cheating on them. If you think he's playing games with you and you respond by playing games with him, that makes you worse because you're sinking to his level. And what if you're wrong about him? What if his intentions towards you are genuine, but you lead him on cause you think he's playing a game and then you discover that you were wrong the whole time?
corrective action = work on yourself to change relationship patterns that are problematic
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