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Old 12-08-2008, 12:27 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Book Lover 21 View Post
Okay, since I lack both dignity AND self-respect, I will respond honestly. Yes, I have done this. I was in a bar and chatting with two guys (yes - total strangers). The subject of threesomes came up. I said I always thought that two girls with one guy didn't make any sense because guys don't last as long as women and threesomes with two guys is a lot more practical. Then I excused myself to visit the ladies room and give them a chance to discuss it. Sure enough, they suggested we go to one of their apartments to try a great bottle of wine that he had. The rest is history.

And to answer your next question, it was awesome, phenomenal and one of the memories I conjure up to cheer myself up during bad times.

NOW - let the criticism begin!!! (I can take it)
Thanks for the honesty. Now, two more questions for you.

1) Hubby know about it?
2) If hubby suggested it to you, would you go for it again? Assuming, of course, you were attracted to the third partner.
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Old 12-08-2008, 12:44 PM
 
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Thanks for the honesty. Now, two more questions for you.

1) Hubby know about it?
2) If hubby suggested it to you, would you go for it again? Assuming, of course, you were attracted to the third partner.
Hubby was a missionary in another life. I have offered to:

- get him a hooker and let me watch
- threesome with man or woman of his choice
- fantasy role playing
- etc etc etc

He actually gets very angry and offended whenever I bring these things up, so I stopped. But, with maturity, I understand that bringing another person into our marriage bed is probably a bad idea anyway. I think this only works well when it is a casual encounter.
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Old 12-08-2008, 12:46 PM
 
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Oh, and no, hubby DOES NOT know about it.
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Old 12-08-2008, 12:58 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Originally Posted by Book Lover 21 View Post
Hubby was a missionary in another life. I have offered to:

- get him a hooker and let me watch
- threesome with man or woman of his choice
- fantasy role playing
- etc etc etc

He actually gets very angry and offended whenever I bring these things up, so I stopped. But, with maturity, I understand that bringing another person into our marriage bed is probably a bad idea anyway. I think this only works well when it is a casual encounter.
Have you ever wondered if you would be more sexually compatible with someone else than your hub? Did you not know he was in a different category (sexually) before the wedding? It seems like something that would be pretty important in a partnership - matching libidos and interests.

My ex was the opposite of your hub - he was always on the prowl looking for how to "make it happen". He knew what my conditions were, though. If only he had been better at the stuff other than sex, maybe he wouldn't be my ex.
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Old 12-08-2008, 01:03 PM
 
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Have you ever wondered if you would be more sexually compatible with someone else than your hub? Did you not know he was in a different category (sexually) before the wedding? It seems like something that would be pretty important in a partnership - matching libidos and interests.

My ex was the opposite of your hub - he was always on the prowl looking for how to "make it happen". He knew what my conditions were, though. If only he had been better at the stuff other than sex, maybe he wouldn't be my ex.
No, we humped like rabbits before the wedding and all through the first year of marriage. And my hubby is the opposite of your ex, he is awesome at everything else!
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:56 PM
 
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No criticism here. Just because you enjoy a good sexual adventure dosent mean you lack dignity or self-respect. It is the old double standard rearing it ugly head again. Gee, a girl just wants to have fun.
Double the pleasure, double the fun!


Shame on you.


No shame here sweetie. She said it, not I. I just happen to totally agree with it.
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Old 12-09-2008, 08:03 AM
 
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i always knew your name was missy reagan!
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Old 12-09-2008, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Originally Posted by Book Lover 21 View Post
Hubby was a missionary in another life. I have offered to:

- get him a hooker and let me watch
- threesome with man or woman of his choice
- fantasy role playing
- etc etc etc

He actually gets very angry and offended whenever I bring these things up, so I stopped. But, with maturity, I understand that bringing another person into our marriage bed is probably a bad idea anyway. I think this only works well when it is a casual encounter.
Damn, you are off the hook! What would make you open to that?
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Old 12-10-2008, 08:19 AM
 
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I understand that bringing another person into our marriage bed is probably a bad idea anyway. I think this only works well when it is a casual encounter.
I think you are right about that Book. I would'nt want to with my bf, but after we started dating his ex gf kept calling and calling wanting him back, while he was on the phone with her one evening I said loudly, just invite her over to join us already. She never called again.
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