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Old 12-30-2008, 12:16 PM
 
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I have been talking to this guy off and on for since summer started ....we just recently had sex in november but im really not sure if he is just using me or i dont know he calls once in a while to see what im doin or how im doin but thats about it we have only had sex twice...i have known him since middle school and now we are both 20...i dont know if its just a friendship/ crush but no more?
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I have been talking to this guy off and on for since summer started ....we just recently had sex in november but im really not sure if he is just using me or i dont know he calls once in a while to see what im doin or how im doin but thats about it we have only had sex twice...i have known him since middle school and now we are both 20...i dont know if its just a friendship/ crush but no more?
Honey, don't have sex with him again if you truly want to have a relationship with him. Save the sex for later, if and when he becomes truly interested in you as a person. Until that happens you are just making it way too easy for him to have a booty call. LOVE YOURSELF BETTER THAN THIS.
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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It's a booty call.
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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Honey, don't have sex with him again if you truly want to have a relationship with him. Save the sex for later, if and when he becomes truly interested in you as a person. Until that happens you are just making it way too easy for him to have a booty call. LOVE YOURSELF BETTER THAN THIS.
Why don't you use him as a booty call?
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Cat - I'm gonna use YOU as a KITTY CALL!!!!!
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:25 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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OK ..so aparently "skyrockets in flight" hasn't started buzzing in his head with you writhing around on the hood of a sportscar as his own personal MTV video, yet? Have you tried discussing this with....I don't know....him?
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:33 PM
 
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Cat - I'm gonna use YOU as a KITTY CALL!!!!!

The number is 877-PUTTY CAT No collect calls please!!
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Old 12-30-2008, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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I have been talking to this guy off and on for since summer started ....we just recently had sex in november but im really not sure if he is just using me or i dont know he calls once in a while to see what im doin or how im doin but thats about it we have only had sex twice...i have known him since middle school and now we are both 20...i dont know if its just a friendship/ crush but no more?
How often is "once in a while"? (i.e. how often does he call you?). Are phone calls the only contact you have with him? Sounds like a booty call on first glance, but more info is needed.
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Old 12-30-2008, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I`m assuming that the calls have become less frequent, since you two had sex, right?
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Old 12-30-2008, 06:14 PM
 
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Who passed on and made you the forum healer?

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Honey, don't have sex with him again if you truly want to have a relationship with him. Save the sex for later, if and when he becomes truly interested in you as a person. Until that happens you are just making it way too easy for him to have a booty call. LOVE YOURSELF BETTER THAN THIS.
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